ps - Again, I say that you brought a lot of this on yourself - just my opinion but I feel shared by many here. Your first post here was blasting what happened to you at CM with Wayne so you started the negativity. That is not an opinion but a fact.
What do I feel about the "buying your wife" attacks ? I don't feel that personal things should be put on the internet. If you are happy with "buying your wife" than I am glad for you.
BUT you put that on the internet so you have to take the good and the bad that goes along with that. I personally try not to get into "family" issues with anyone on the internet because it always turns nasty. But I also don't post family stuff on the internet, which you did.
You have also questioned every ones intelligence when they don't agree with you - again, this is nothing but a fact. If they don't agree with you then they are wrong.
When you do that, you leave yourself open to any thing that people can say to you.
Like I said, I don't believe that family issues should be attacked or put down on the internet or on a forum like this, but when you open the door, first by telling everyone that you "bought your wife" and then by questioning every ones intelligence when they disagree with you, I feel you have blame in that as well.
You had no reason to talk about "buying your wife" on the internet and if you do, with your so-called intelligence, you should know that you will have good and bad responses about it. It is your personal matter and it should have remained your personal matter. When you post about it in public, you can't expect everyone to say all positive about it.
Just my opinion
Yes it is fact that I started the negative proceedings in this Forum because if I had done so at CM, I would have banned immediately by Wayne even though he bashed and insulted me ad nauseam both there and at BC-that is FACT and not opinion.
He has done the same with other folks, some of whom are her for being banned or leaving and some more at another thread in this Forum for speaking out.
Re: "Buying my wife and assuming I understand you correctly, that is a 100% UNTRUE!!!!
Back at BC I always presented it as a Romance Tour based on spending a good part of the summer chatting, and emailing and joining Foreign Affair in this pursuit.
It was Wayne and other lowlifes at BC who referred to as "buying a wife."
I was hit with the same "buying a wife" bs when I started hat was supposed to be a civil conversation about a possible way for men to find a mate in a foreign country.
I was once again greeted by nastiness, name calling and insults led by "moderator" Wayne who led the charg with "buying a wife."
When I asked Wayne and others about their own significant others, they avoided the question just like Psychic did when asked questions along those lines.
For me that amounts to sheer jealousy and envy.
If I misunderstood your response, the pleas clarify.
As far as you comment about "questioning everyone's intelligence" who doesn't agree with you, lets be clear and honest here.
I have questioned their intelligence when they have not given an opinion at all relevant to the case at hand, but rather have personally attacked me and/or or refused to answer
relevant questions such as is case with Psychic.
I call it using my intelligence to expose those who attack, and/or don't answer my questions civilly out of intent or out of inability to do so-the two are not mutually exclusive.
My overall take is that both here and that in the other related thread at RX, a number of folks who were either banned by Wayne or believed that they didn't believe they were treated fairly, decided to simply come over here and speak briefly about it and let it go.
I respect them for that.
However as I said earlier, that is not my mindset ,and as you can see with Phil Steele/NC, I will pursue what I deem to be a worthy cause, I will give it my all no matter how long it takes to get the message effectively across.
All I care about is whether they read what I have to say whether they respond or no-judging by NC Thread, Sox Commentary Thread and over here especially, PLENTY of people read what I have to say.
I would love to civilly discuss issues like this one in a respectful and dignified manner.
On the other hand if folks want to attack with name calling and insults for expressing an opinion they do not share instead of addressing the issue itself, I can go that route also as you see here and as much as I was allowed to do so at CM and BC.
I will continue this with you if you like, but in all honesty it is quite apparent that you are not going to change my mind and vice versa.
I will say that imo though that in at least the last few exchanges with you, you have accorded yourself in the manner I wish to exchange opinions, thoughts and ides.