Yipee...MY new WIFE from Korea !

[kimchee7270]

So basically youre gonna use each other and hope for the best?

I think When U meet Anyone U are always Sizing up what person can provide ? for christ sakes, Why Do The rich / Ugly mother fuks Get The prettiest woman ? U know Why !!!

I wouldn't say JUST USEING each other......We Do Like Each other ...enough So that we'd Fvckn take a chance on our livlihoods to make this work .....So i think "using" is a bit Strong , But i definitely see that its a Calculated Risk......There is No other Way ...because of The distance in The relationshoip....I'm Not gonna get to know her any better by makin 10 calls a week..

 

[-Slim-]

No doubt about it, every relationship ever has been about needs and what someone else can do for you, like for example, us here at the rx....we seek each other for entertainment at boring times like these (at work).

Not calling u out at all but it seems risky to be doing so much with someone u barely know although technically the risk seems much larger for her than it is for you.

 

[kimchee7270]

I understand Slim

No doubt about it, every relationship ever has been about needs and what someone else can do for you, like for example, us here at the rx....we seek each other for entertainment at boring times like these (at work).

Not calling u out at all but it seems risky to be doing so much with someone u barely know although technically the risk seems much larger for her than it is for you.

SLIM

I'm Glad I'm Conversing With U Today 'cause I'veThought About The same Damn things u mentioned.....But i feel as though I am as honest as I can be Towards Her n her family N towards Me ....We Don't know completely about each other...We know we LIke Each other ....We know We are attracted to each other ....we know we both want to get married and live in The states ....And we know we are both taking a considerable risk to Make it happen ......But in the end Slick ...what are we really risking ? WE are Risking TIME , MONEY , and our Emotional well being are we not ?

I can replace all That 'xcept For TIME ! ....I don't know what The outcome will be 'cause We Did Not MAKE the TIME To take that Chance .... i'd Rather Take that Chance to know For Sure ...the possibiltity for Greatness is there , u know ? ..And YES.u r right ..she has more to risk.....I feel lucky to know that a Chick who barely knows me ,but JUST Simply TRUSTS that I am a decent person Is Willing to take That Chance with Me ......I Feel pretty fvckn Lucky , Slim . :thumbsup:

 

[kimchee7270]

i dig this girl !

it's not about love right now ...it's about waving "hi" to america and Bein Committed to marriage


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[-Slim-]

understandable but because you both want similar things doesnt mean you belong with each other, will get along, etc etc...relationships are great but man its annoying to fight with a woman, one of the worst things possible if u ask me...its just so energy consuming.....

from ur point of view u risk much less, from hers, alot more, one of themmoving to a country where she doenst even speak english, which will probably mean she will depend on u to provide for her, heck if she is as u tell it, she might be a virgin and giving that up for someone with 'religious values and beliefs' could be pretty bad....

 

[tkim11]

from ur point of view u risk much less, from hers, alot more, one of themmoving to a country where she doenst even speak english, which will probably mean she will depend on u to provide for her, heck if she is as u tell it, she might be a virgin and giving that up for someone with 'religious values and beliefs' could be pretty bad....

Slim, brings up a good point. What kind of job will she get if she decides to get a job? Considering, she cant speak the language too well I doubt a company will be willing to hire her? Unless, your making enough so she doesnt have to work.

Who cares...as long as your happy, fuck us. :thumbsup: Congrats and rock on

 

[BadCo]

Not working is a quagmyer,when my wife didn;t work after both newborns she could not wait for me to get home.

After work you must not stop off for a beer damnit she has been home all day doing go go and ga ga and needs your help.

 

[WVU]

kimchee, there is no way that you are for real, but we all get a good laugh out of it anyway.

 

[-Slim-]

WVU I wouldnt be so sure, this guy is kinda fruity.

 

[gbogo]

my current girlfriend is korean

there are large korean communities here in the US, alot revolves around the temples

typically korean women are hairdressers/beauty industry if they arent in something else

she might feel out of place friend wise till she meets up with people at those places.


to me seems a risk but heck these days people meet on the internet and sometimes never seen each other in person so hard to say something can't work out.

goodluck

 

[Seymour]

This marriage is built on some foundation - I check this thread every couple of days to see if your mind has come out of the blender yet.

 

[whalewager]

just checkin in on the slant eye thread

 

[kimchee7270]

Slim, brings up a good point. What kind of job will she get if she decides to get a job? Considering, she cant speak the language too well I doubt a company will be willing to hire her? Unless, your making enough so she doesnt have to work.

Who cares...as long as your happy, fuck us. :thumbsup: Congrats and rock on

i actually don't want her workin....planin on havin kids with her..that will keep her busy ....i can make enough for the both of us .....she's a comp wiz n she plans on workin / sellin products viainternet ....so she can work at home


i understand the concerns of slimn you...u guys both bring up points i already considered...it won't be easy n there are always hidden minefields ...but i realize that she is completely trustin n relyin on myself to be the bread winner.....i have a middle class job / along with the sports entertainment biz....i can support a family ....besides, i don't want her workin..don't need sum guy named carl to be hittin on her at work....she belongs with the kids ...no day care is gonna raise my kin!:money8:

 

[kimchee7270]

not yet

This marriage is built on some foundation - I check this thread every couple of days to see if your mind has come out of the blender yet.

....not yet seym......i'm gonna keep u laughin for months !:thumbsup:

 

[kimchee7270]

just checkin in on the slant eye thread

ok round eye ....:think2: :thumbsup:

 

[kimchee7270]

:thumbsup:

my current girlfriend is korean

there are large korean communities here in the US, alot revolves around the temples

typically korean women are hairdressers/beauty industry if they arent in something else

she might feel out of place friend wise till she meets up with people at those places.


to me seems a risk but heck these days people meet on the internet and sometimes never seen each other in person so hard to say something can't work out.

goodluck

thanx gbo....no doubt there is risk...but to what level ? If it works ..It will Be The absolute greatest MOVE of my life...If it fails....No Biggy...she'll Go Back n i'llbe Divorced...but i'll still Be Rockin !

Won't be drinkn any beers after wok...I don't Drink...I'll Be cominstraight Home...her lonliness is a concern and we've talked But she feels as though she wants to meet new friends as idealistic as that might sound .....i'm a gonna impregnate her so she'll b busy n she'll b too busy stuyn Engrish anyway to be too lonely ....we'll HAVE EACH OTHER...hee..hee !!!!:thumbsup:

and ur right....people meet on da internet all the Time...At least i've Spent a WEEK with Her in person...hee..hee seriously, thanx For the support !:aktion033

 

[kimchee7270]

WVU I wouldnt be so sure, this guy is kinda fruity.

:missingte :missingte :missingte

no doubt this is off the wall and just because you have the same likes n goals doesn't mean its gonna work...the only way to truly find out is ...DRAFT That PERSON....Go In WAste DEEP ...U might not get out , but you might also be plesantly suprised ....The greatest rewards in LIFE , the greatest discoveries all have Come from RIsk n accident ....the Donald trump !

All you can do is what my pal Andy reid has been doin the last 7 years....DRAFT good quality people / a good educated guess / N hope for the best 'cause nobody REALLY knows for Sure ......certainly ANy don't after his latest picks !:monsters- :thumbsup:

 

[robmpink]

One thing about Kimchee that I noticed is people will rag on him and he really doesn't flip out like a lot of people would. Seems like a happy go lucky guy down on his lady luck. Christ, he must have some potential if he went on that "reporter" trip a month or two back.

 

[WVU]

ok kimchee, reality check here for ya. She is marrying you for a green card and a ticket to the states. She will turn on you 2 years into the marriage when she gets a 10 year green card and does not need you anymore. Do you think you just got lucky and have hit the jackpot with a sweet innocent nice girl? Yeah every girl is looking for a very average looking nice guy that is 10 years her senior. These things rarely work out. You are not ready for this. If you think your ex hurt you over Carl, just wait until you truly fall in love with her and then she turns on you. These things rarely work out.

 

[kimchee7270]

ok kimchee, reality check here for ya. She is marrying you for a green card and a ticket to the states. She will turn on you 2 years into the marriage when she gets a 10 year green card and does not need you anymore. Do you think you just got lucky and have hit the jackpot with a sweet innocent nice girl? Yeah every girl is looking for a very average looking nice guy that is 10 years her senior. These things rarely work out. You are not ready for this. If you think your ex hurt you over Carl, just wait until you truly fall in love with her and then she turns on you. These things rarely work out.

WV ...Please Give Me The Stats or The Fake Stats on these things workn out? ...If you mean there is a chance For Divorce LIke Two 3rds of the marriages in the USA ?....NO FVCKN SHIT VW....What r U a Fvckn Rocket Scientist ? ..... The Few Long Distance marriages that I know of Are STILL Working up To THis Point ? I Highly doubt The Stats Are ANY Different Than a Regular Marriage in The STates .... SO Yeah as Crazy As I sound/ I Have Given It a Lot of Thought.....The Idea is to MAke It work / If it Fails ...I Really don't GIVE A FVCK as long as I Tried .....All I can say Is , U R not wRong If U Think It won't work , But You are Also Not 100% Certain that it will fail !

Plus, She won't Have Any place to go AFTER I impregnate her And After I'm The Main Bread Winner ......Where The Fvck is She gonna go...Into Carl's arms ?....:thumbsup: