What's the best way to dump a guy?

[xpanda]

This isn't an in-need-of-a-bad-boy thing.

Kingbill hit it on the head.

Anyway, it's done. Told him we're incompatible, imo, and that I don't see a future. Wished him the best and hoped we could be friends. Being the nice guy he is, he took it very well and said to stay in touch.

Dunno why I get so worked up about stuff like this. It's almost never as hard as I imagine it to be.

Thanks for all the advice, even the crazy shit.

-Tanya.

 

[Arodd]

Dsethi you pulled ANY skirt since the bash ?

Yes + 20,000
No - 35,000

we can't all be 5'5 studs like you buddy

 

[Boxslayer]

so xpanda....your name is Tanya?

 

[WCBias]

This isn't an in-need-of-a-bad-boy thing.

Kingbill hit it on the head.

Anyway, it's done. Told him we're incompatible, imo, and that I don't see a future. Wished him the best and hoped we could be friends. Being the nice guy he is, he took it very well and said to stay in touch.

Dunno why I get so worked up about stuff like this. It's almost never as hard as I imagine it to be.

Thanks for all the advice, even the crazy shit.

-Tanya.

Wow...nauseating thread, this is what I do at 2 am when the kid is sick and I can't get back to sleep. X, had I not met you in person, I would have thought this thread had Roxyturd written all over it. But since you happen to be an attractive female...

You were far too kind. This guy needs an assbeating. You should have given him a Reverse Dirty Sanchez and said "son, you ain't man enough for me"

He'd have to grow one after that beat down.

 

[xpanda]

so xpanda....your name is Tanya?

It is, yes.

 

[Dante]

we can't all be 5'5 studs like you buddy

very true:smoker2:

 

[xpanda]

we can't all be 5'5 studs like you buddy

5'5" ... on his back.

 

[Dawoofdaddy]

Should have at least give him a courtesy BJ before he was shown the door.

:grandmais

 

[joeyfitzclick]

5'5" ... on his back.

 

[WCBias]

Hey bro, it says five "Foot" five inches, not five "Inches"....

 

[joeyfitzclick]

I'm aware

 

[Dante]

5'5" ... on his back.

DAMNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNN :monsters-

 

[Dante]

Hey bro, it says five "Foot" five inches, not five "Inches"....

maybe for Desethi's and Skinsraj sake my friend Joey was telling us the size of his...errrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr nevermind:grandmais

 

[go2guy]

So I have this friend ...

We'll call her "Tonya".

She's been dating this guy for a few weeks, out maybe six times or so. Phone calls roughly every other day on average, a bit of emailing. No sex.

Anyway, so this guy is REALLY boring. Like, zzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz even when booze is involved. They have some stuff in common, but conversations pretty much make her want to stick a fork in her eye. He's not very dynamic, she's reasonably outgoing. He hates sports, she likes sports. She swears, he apologises when he says the word 'shit.' She's spontaneous, he needs an itinerary to go to the zoo. She's a risk-taker, he thinks GICs are a great investment. You see the dilemma.

The problem, however, is that the two of them cross paths roughly once a week due to territorial commitments set in stone for at least the foreseeable future. So she has to see him again whether she likes it or not. Plus he's a really *nice* guy and she doesn't particularly want to hurt him. And he's made it clear he thinks they'll be dating for a while anyway.

What is the nice way to let him go, so that it is firm and clear, yet not so awful that seeing each other is a nightmare?

Well for one, never date anyone you work with period even if it's occasionally. It's bad news trust me and many others who've gone down that road! Now we got that out of the way, keep it simple and tell him face to face that you don't see this working out because blah, blah, blah and DO NOT LEAD HIM ON OR COMPLIMENT HIM AFTER SAYING THIS and continue having a natural convo if possible if not go about your business knowing you were honest to him and yourself.


Then get J-man's phone # and holla at a playa! uppy: Oops forgot, you guys work together :lolBIG:

 

[Arodd]

Wow...nauseating thread, this is what I do at 2 am when the kid is sick and I can't get back to sleep. X, had I not met you in person, I would have thought this thread had Roxyturd written all over it. But since you happen to be an attractive female...

You were far too kind. This guy needs an assbeating. You should have given him a Reverse Dirty Sanchez and said "son, you ain't man enough for me"

He'd have to grow one after that beat down.

"this guy needs an assbeating."

funny as hell
joeyfitz needs an assbeating from xpanda just to show him whats up

 

[xpanda]

Well for one, never date anyone you work with period even if it's occasionally. It's bad news trust me and many others who've gone down that road!

Nah, didn't work with the guy.

I don't get my bread and my meat from the same store, if'n you catch my drift.

lol.

 

[Dante]

joeyfitz needs an assbeating from xpanda just to show him whats up

why does getting an assbeating from X Sound good to me :smoker2: I think I Would probably like that JOEY is lucky:monsters-

 

[BookieNemesis]

Take him to a gay bar and he will dump her. Let him do the dirty work.

 

[joeyfitzclick]

why does getting an assbeating from X Sound good to me :smoker2: I think I Would probably like that JOEY is lucky:monsters-

She's tougher than she looks. I took a beating :nopityA:

 

[mrpotter1]

Turn on the lights and let him see you. That should send him running.