Could not have said it better. We all have obstacles to overcome in life. Some people make it happen while others don't.
This isnt a question of wether or not the work ethic is there or anything else. My father and mother came to america with 1 baby. My father worked hard, in fact to this day when I meet someone who knew him this is the first thing they say about him. He was making 8 dollars an hr when he died but took every minute of OT he could get his hands on and saved up enough to have a home built for us in a better area of town. They bought every house they ever lived in and when he died he left my mother with 3 children to finish raising and 3 homes the one we lived in and 2 income properties. Now believe me when I tell you these income properties are not cash producers. In fact my mother would have sold them but she could only get 30k for the 2 houses combined (3 units). I have tried to get her to sell them and take what ever she can get but shes stubbourn (this is her biggest fault) everything has sentimental value to her. Also she lets my sister live in one house rent free. Since she was a stay at home mom she didnt enter the work force untill she was 42 and probably stopped around 50. She made minimum wage and worked the worst hours. Had she started earlier Im sure her story would be similar to Willie99. She has been a totally independent woman and a very good grandmother to my 5 nephews and nieces. No one has ever used the terms lazy or anything that resembles that term to describe her. She does not complain about things and does not believe she is owed anything, this is me complaining. I understand that there are other 64 yr old women in this world who have made it happen and have medical insurance, Im just not really 100% sure how she could have managed this. My whole point is, I know less about politics than anyone. This is why I didnt vote, id rather leave that up to the people who know the issues and policies. I do think I have a very good understanding of what is wrong and what is right and I believe deniying a 64 year old woman a doctors visit because she does not have insurance is WRONG.