Ok, I'll be the bad guy here.
We all need health care and we all know it. I work and have a health care plan. If you're employer doesn't offer this then you must pay for it and have a private plan.
If a person doesn't have a plan they must ask themselves why they don't have a plan. If they can't afford a plan then essentially you're saying a person can't afford a plan so those of us that do should pay for the people that can't afford it and guys like me don't think that's right.
I'm very sorry that your mom is in pain but it's her fault she's a heavy woman right? I'm sure you and her could've seen this coming from a long ways away. Americans are by and large (no pun intended) overweight and there's no personal accountability. It's a known fact that being overweight causes many more health problems. So, by providing universal health care you're asking me to pay for someone else who can't maintain a healthy lifestyle and again, I don't think that's right.
Now, rip away please but I'm only providing an opposite opinion here. There are two sides to everything.
Bingo. Sorry to hear about your Mom.