i agree with what you said about comparing the two as i had a major heart attack years ago and have 3 stents in my arterieswhich 2 of them are your main arteries, and also agree that it is a selfish act to commit suicide.i have suffered from depression and ptsd for several years now and i also have been clean and sober for 17 years now.
to take your own life is terrible as you create more problems for the people you left behind,it's just not fair to them and its a cowards way out(i know ill get backlash from that)because there is treatment centers for all disorders of that kind.i go to my doctors office to see my therapist every 2 weeks and see the psych.doctor every 6 weeks and they go through a discussion about my meds on a constant basis.
have i ever wanted to kill myself?-NO,..have i ever wished i was dead?-YES,but they are two different senerios and i have came so far with my recovery which i am very proud of and i hope someday to get relief from some of this depression and live a happier life.
i take a lot of shit on here and of course i cause my own problems at times,but not everytime and the only thing i would ever hope for from this forum is for the people to let up and understand that im going through a tough life for many years and its not fun.i also get treated for memory loss which was due to the heart attack,so to wake up every morning is a gamble in it self(no pun intended)and to try and figure out what is going to bother me that day.
i don't expect anything to be different on here for me cause i know a lot of you are just ruthless and i see it towards other people also but its about time i cleared the air with myself and you people here on the RX.i feel for the family of robin williams and hope this don't cause them too much grief
Some people suffer a lot more than others in this life. Many times, it has nothing to do with choices made, and is instead just a tough hand that was dealt. Suicide is sad, but I wouldn't refer to it as selfish. That is very offensive and judgmental. It hurts a lot of people, but none more than the person that was so desperate that they felt like the only way out was to take their own life.
Were the people that jumped off the top of the World Trade Center selfish? No, they were just desperate.
Shut up you self righteous prick, killing yourself is not as easy as squares think. Disrespectful, as usual.
we are not designed,period (but thats a different discussion)
at any rate things go bad , we are also not 'supposed' to get cancer but we do or die from any of the million genetic diseases that exist, this is the same thing.
the brain is a computer and it needs a delicate chemical balance to work properly, you seem to think you can control everything that goes through your brain and the simple fact is , you cant, given the proper conditions you will no longer be able to think as clearly as you think you can and bang.
there is not so much a 'choice' when your CPU is not operating normally but has a computer virus in it causing all sorts of crashes.
Ill take that back. Job well done? Took courage to finally go through with it?
Never had a need to express my opinion on this subject, but a guy like this is in the last guy category to have an end result like this.
It just makes sense to me if you have a dysfunctional leg, arm, heart, brain, CPU, etc...you take steps to repair these things.
You don't numb or avoid or pull the plug.
It's very easy to kill yourself. Much harder to not if you have depression. That's why they kill themselves. I have much more of an idea than you.
The problem is that you are viewing his cirumstances through your own lens, and can't possibly know what it felt like to live in his shoes and be in his reality. Have you ever contemplated suicide? If you have, have you had to say no to suicide everyday for 30 years? Doubt it. Most of the time, suicide is a long drawn out battle and it gets someone in a weak moment. It is the ultimate form of desperation. Suicide isn't selfish, the self does not gain anything by it......it's the end of self.
It also doesn't define someone's life, as if dying by suicide negates everything a person was and did during their lifetime. RIP Robin.