Anyone else ever blindsided by a divorce?

[HacheMan]

Of course its not easy.

its fucking mind bllowing shit.

but i gotta try to look forward and forget the past, accept the fact that I was in a bad marriage and move forward.

Trust me you don't have to tell me.
I'm experiencing the same thing.

Moving forward is easier said than done.....

 

[Kruser6]

Wow, this is why I hate women and could never give a woman my heart - she does not love you anymore? WTF is that? I understand that I get what I deserve but if I had a wife that I loved and I took care of and I had kids with get up and leave for no reason whatsover I would take the kids out of the house - tie her to the bed - and literally set the house of fire - completely out of the blue is what I don't get?

You been listening to Eminem Seymour?

 

[HacheMan]

When I saw this thread a poster titled (on page 2 now)
did i take wimp road??



I thought when I opened it he was going to be directed at this thread and some of us cry-babies in here.....lol

 

[SportSavant]

Trust me you don't have to tell me.
I'm experiencing the same thing.

Moving forward is easier said than done.....

I cant even begin to tell you what im going through right now.

But i have left the city, and left the toxic situation I was in, your situation might be different, might be worth fighting for. But I was living with someone who has become a monster. I need to cut all ties and move on and never look back (which I know is impossible) but its the only choice I have.

 

[bigbet1234]

Generally a sign of mental illness

 

[bigbet1234]

You got kids SS?

Of course its not easy.

its fucking mind bllowing shit.

but i gotta try to look forward and forget the past, accept the fact that I was in a bad marriage and move forward.

 

[Seymour]

You been listening to Eminem Seymour?

That's where I got it from - I love Eminem

 

[harrington]

My wife told me she was leaving after 20 years. Been separated for about 2 years now and I've never been happier. You have young children so that's totally different. Mine are grown and gone. It won't be easy but you will get through it. Good luck and stay strong my friend.

 

[Phonebook]

You back to losing weight harrington?

Sorry to get off topic OP.....

 

[SportSavant]

no bigbet, thank god we have no kids.

But we do have two dogs and 3 properties to deal with. (It sounds minor but it is a fvcking mess)

 

[VIEJODINOSAUR]

I can't believe some of the advice & suggestions given to him in this thread.

If you are in love with someone and they are part of your daily/nightly life & routine, it's not that easy to just have a drink, make a toast to her leaving, playing the field with other women, and living it up...

Time heals everything....I understand it hurts and 95% of us have been thru it....took me three years to finally raise the glass and say thank you for getting rid of my fat ass....going on my 24th annual toast to my ex.......

 

[VegasRandy]

Time heals everything....I understand it hurts and 95% of us have been thru it....took me three years to finally raise the glass and say thank you for getting rid of my fat ass....going on my 24th annual toast to my ex.......

What is your ex doing now? Was she happy with her decision or did she have regrets?


Anyone have their ex come back to them wanting to work it out?

 

[VIEJODINOSAUR]

What is your ex doing now? Was she happy with her decision or did she have regrets?


Anyone have their ex come back to them wanting to work it out?

She is still a good friend and a great Mom to our daughter...we still keep in touch and I see her whenever I fly thru Dallas....

We both laugh at the 7 years we were together (5 married)....she had some remorse, but not much...like I said earlier, time heals all wounds....

 

[viking611]

Cleveland

 

[VegasRandy]

 

[silver7]

A "Dear John" When I Was An 18 Yr Old Kid

overseas to boot. To make it worse, a true "10" looks, brains the whole enchilada. It affected the way I treated women for yrs. Little respect, & NO MERCY.

Looking back @ it now, from 50 yrs of experience, I see she was waaay above my pay grade @ that time. At 30 I could have handled it, but not at 18, and alone.

Having kids is the ball buster. Good advice re. a lawyer. And DON'T engage in name calling or harrassment. All us "macho" guys hate to admit there is such a thing as a broken heart. But there is and it's a bitch. I'm 77 now and I hope a lot wiser, but at the time it's a killer. Having a circle of friends really helps. DON'T beg, if you love her tell her and then let it go. You will survive, just hope it works out as far as the kids go! BOL & posting @ the RX, is good for the need to vent.:toast:

 

[TricoCat23]

Intruder, my daughter is 6 now. About 2 years ago I went through this.

After all is said and done, only TIME helped me. About 9 to 10 months later I found someone and I am still with her. I am very happy. YOU will be to. Hang in their brother.

Only regret is I wish I see my daughter more.
Again hang in there, its nice to be able to talk about things like this.

 

[SportSavant]

Would pay to hear her side of this.
Reading your posts over the years,you can be a total prick yourself.

If you do tell us stories about her, it will show what a roach you truly are.
Becarefull what you write,it might come back and stab you in the back.

that was not necessarry and I fail to understand your hard on for me. i am well aware i am not a perfect person and do not need reminders, but i have been honest and loyal husband for 10 years, and my honesty and loyalty was not reciprocated.

 

[SportSavant]

Has anyone heard from Intruder since this thread was started?

 

[RenoChazz]

What is your ex doing now? Was she happy with her decision or did she have regrets?


Anyone have their ex come back to them wanting to work it out?

Hey whatever happened with the Hilton. Did they ever pay you after you took it to the gaming board