I'm going to play devil's advocate so feel free to bash away.
I certainly do not excuse the cop's language or tone he used in handling this situation at all. It was uncalled for and wrong.
Now, put yourself in his shoes for just one second. You see a car run a red light (not just a rolling yellow but a red light). You put on your lights and pull the car over. Two people immediately get out and look very panicked and loud and you have no idea what is happening.
You're trying to figure out the situation and aren't sure what's happening but you know for sure two people are not following your commands at all and are all over the place with their hands and moving about. You hear them screaming a family member is dying but you can't confirm this for sure and don't quite know what the hell is going on other than you just saw them run a red light.
I, for one, respect policemen very much and know they put their lives on the line daily for us. Cops have to be on the defensive constantly always awaiting for unexpected. These guys have heard every single excuse in the book to get out of traffic violations and while some are true and some not true they've heard them all. This guy had to figure out what happened because he didn't know. We're they just trying to get out of a ticket? Were they felons and trying to distract him long enough for a third person to get out of the car and shoot at him? Hell, these things go through a cop's mind I imagine. It's not safe and traffic stops can turn deadly.
What he should've done is try and calm the situation down and the only way to do that was to act calm and professional and assess what was happening. He could've walked right into the hospital with them and verifyed the story and after he did that just walk away but he didn't do that. Instead, he acted like an ass and that's what made it bad.
I don't think him stopping them and trying to figure out what happened was the problem but the way he handled the situation was the real tragedy here.
Just my .02 worth.
I agree with you as far as the process....but once in the hospital parking lot and when OTHERS are telling the cop the situation and hes saying...hang on, almost done? (writing the ticket) Are you kidding me? NO EXCUSE! Not to mention his language and tone....its just bullying....again NO EXCUSE! Its a power trip....and they did say he was new...started in 2006....I cant defend this Asshole! And yes, for the most part, cops do a good job...but thats just not common sense...this guy is a bad apple!
Gasm~