(if this is the wrong forum for this I apologize in advance)
My son is an excellent athlete .....at 15 he is 6' 205lbs ..he is working towards being the first freshman at his school to letter in two sports in almost 15 years....my question is this....He is currently getting offers from a few high profile high schools in our area to transfer...he is at a 6A public high school now....At the school he is currently at he will get to start at QB in football and SS in baseball...at this public school he will be a featured player....from discussion with the coaches of the other schools it seems apparent he will start off at least in a lesser role and see less playing time....he's asked me if he should consider leaving or remain on the less talented team and get more "press"....I know I probably sound like an over-valuing douche bag dad but at 15 he has already received 2 letters offering formal visits to their D1 schools ( crazy IMHO to look at a kid who is a freshman.....that's another topic all together)
as a concerned parent I'm not sure what to tell him.....thoughts would be greatly appreciated
he's asking the old man for advice,
My 2-cents.
to be clear== he will be playing vs top high school teams? High schools aren't tiered are they? The question is whether to play on his current team or move to a team with a greater reputation/better players?
my experience is with hockey , so none of this is specific to your situation...none the less. Don't panic and over think things. Your boy is already turning heads. D1 schools are looking at him. It looks like he has a high probability of getting a scholarship. The cost of education in North America is crazy high. That's like winning a mini-lottery.
some kids are prodigies. Doesn't matter where they play. They just need to play, they will gravitate to the highest level cause they are just too damn good. They don't need to be an area of high exposure. A great example is Austin Mathews-- an American hockey player for the Toronto Maple Leafs. The kid was from Arizona.
There is NO established elite minor hockey competition there. Parents didn't move to a hockey bed like Michigan. Parents couldn't afford a travel team. He played local and dominated, ....he was found. Now, again, he isn't 'normal' ... you get the drift. In general I agree with Gas Man-- play VS top level competition-- NOT necessarily WITH elite players but rather VS elite players. So i'm assuming his high school team will play all the good teams, even that other high school team, correct? In hockey, there are various levels-- house league, A , AA, AAA. Player XYZ dominating in 'AA' hockey doesn't really mean anything. He's not playing elite, which is 'AAA'. And he ain't getting no scholarship playing "AA" level hockey
what does the other high school have that his current one doesn't? a better gym? at 15 how important is that? better 'coaching'?
I'd be concerned if they are saying he may not start......
I'd re-inforce education, it'll be an important back-up...VERY FEW make it to the pros. hopefully a full scholarship. GL to your boy
Enjoy his games
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