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Sending flowers is last thing you would do in that situation. You didn't do anything wrong. Ignore her unless she texts and don't give her much when/if you do respond to her text. She'll be back
 

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She's older than you and still acting like a teen/early twenties? If she's in her 30's acting like that, there's a reason why she's still single.
 

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Whats the reason she gives her and her bf broke up?
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She didn't go into specifics. Just that he was an "asshole".

My theory is that a few guys have treated her like an shit and she's developed this "I don't take any bullshit" chip on her shoulder. Which causes her to be standoffish at minor conflict like this.
 
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She didn't go into specifics. Just that he was an "asshole".

My theory is that a few guys have treated her like an shit and she's developed this "I don't take any bullshit" chip on her shoulder. Which causes her to be standoffish at minor conflict like this.

yeah but not like you totally forgot her, didn't answer the door or even said Fuck it, can't go out.
a little "Wake up " Shower wasn't going to screw her plans...
 

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So like Wilbur's age ...

Nah, she still gets periods n junk.

yeah but not like you totally forgot her, didn't answer the door or even said Fuck it, can't go out.
a little "Wake up " Shower wasn't going to screw her plans...

Agreed. Wasn't a big deal. Can't believe I have friends (not posters here) that think I was an asshole. Say that it was "disrespectful". How about a little common sense. She was here til 1am or later last night on a worknight, she knows I got up early and worked 12 hours. She should have felt bad and/or been honored that I was so worn out from last night.

Like I said, I could understand if I was supposed to pick her up or meet her somewhere and didn't show. Or didn't answer the door.
 

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[h=2]The Game of Disrespect[/h] This is basically the stage wherein women want to prove that they still have the upper hand in the relationship. The best way to beat this particular game would be to let her know that you value self-respect more than anything else. Once you open her eyes to this simple fact, she is sure to drop the game and run back into your arms again because she will be afraid to lose you.




So, if you want to learn how to beat a woman’s mind games, you either have to ignore her completely or be blunt with her and scare her a little bit. A lot of the time, women only play these games because they are craving attention.
If you call her out with confidence, stand firm and show her that you won’t tolerate any of that nonsense, she is sure to stop the game altogether. If you don’t do, then the cycle will simply keep on going without end.





<So yeah, you are more likely to meet her again and when you do just flat out say you're not into that kind of nonsense>
 

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So yeah, you are more likely to meet here again since you do sorta know her, just say you're not going to put up with that sorta nonsense. She's acting like a child. She'll stop.
 
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She didn't go into specifics. Just that he was an "asshole".

My theory is that a few guys have treated her like an shit and she's developed this "I don't take any bullshit" chip on her shoulder. Which causes her to be standoffish at minor conflict like this
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That seems to be the case and is very common TBH. Let her be... for the sounds of it you don't like her much and she doesn't give premium blowjobs (I hear JustinCruise is like a hoover and cheap, dirty deed cheap).

How long was she on that on and off relationship? She is one of those chicks that becomes dependant and addicted to conflictive relationships, that's her game, she is standing ground. Seems you dont wanna play back, so just dont.
 

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Moral of the story...be ready when you say you're going to to be ready to leave. Regardless of the situation you should of been ready when you told her to be at your place. Yes, woman are psycho.
 

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She just posts this on facebook (where she knows I can see it).

Ladies, in the true sense of the word, know their self-worth or value and if others don't get it, just keep walking... It may be a solitary journey but self-respect will keep you company... I don't invest time in bullshit.

Yeah, no longer interested whatsoever. No one disrespected you for Christ's sake. Shit happens, I accidentally fell asleep, big fuckin deal.

I could see if I was supposed to pick her up and didn't show or was super late.

Typical cognitive dissonance considering:

I should reply back to her post. "Ladies, in the true sense of the word, do not show up at a guy's house and have his dick in their mouth within 90 seconds."

Literally she came over here last night and had a mouthful before her car had cooled down.

It is so bizarre how women go all "girlz power!!" when they are dirty little whores.

She will go running back to the ex tonight. Don't sweat it, at the end of the day it sounds as if you are better off without these silly games.
 

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Nah, she still gets periods n junk.



Agreed. Wasn't a big deal. Can't believe I have friends (not posters here) that think I was an asshole. Say that it was "disrespectful". How about a little common sense. She was here til 1am or later last night on a worknight, she knows I got up early and worked 12 hours. She should have felt bad and/or been honored that I was so worn out from last night.

Like I said, I could understand if I was supposed to pick her up or meet her somewhere and didn't show. Or didn't answer the door.

I would dump the "friends" as well as the wack job slit.
 

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Anybody who says you were an asshole in this situation is pure beta.

Now on to the subject of if she is worth the hassle of seeing again in the future.

That would require pics To make that assessment.
 

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Answer the door in a towel running a few minutes late, and you're laying pipe, instantly...Take a nap, and you're an asshole, even if you did get completely ready, shower and all, in an impressive 11 minutes...

As stated, Bye Felicia! She obviously had another option, and chose that option I guess since she had you the night before...Oh well. On to the next...
 

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If she's a 9+ cut her a little slack. "clingy" forget it!!! Can't stand that. No way apologize, fuck her if she can't take a joke.
 

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