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you got to 7:59 to make this right you asshole the Hawks haven't won a game since you did this to the poor girl :ohno:
 

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you got to 7:59 to make this right you asshole the Hawks haven't won a game since you did this to the poor girl :ohno:

I also hung a new Blackhawks flag on the front of the house Saturday morning. And we haven't won since that.

I am not going to apologize to this girl (again), but I did take the flag down. So let's hope it was the flag.
 

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you got to 7:59 to make this right you asshole the Hawks haven't won a game since you did this to the poor girl :ohno:

This is an excellent point. I wish I had factored this into my selection of side prior to the last game, I'd still have that $138 in my account.
 

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This is all true. But in her mind all she saw was Harry Carey had to choose between, (impressing me/making me feel special/banging me) or sleep. And he chose to sleep. That's all she was thinking at the time. None of the other stuff mattered. Woman can be real bitches and even more selfish than men.

Short-sightedness on her part indeed, best illustration in a while for not seeing the forest for the trees. There are Women who, as unlikely as it sounds in Today's World and this "me-me-me" generation, for whom their Default is Compassion. Which is to say that their most immediate (natural) reaction would be to sympathize with their partner. rather than indulge their own insecure self's request.

Hella hard to locate such a Woman of course. But there are a few of them out there. maybe even in Chicago.

If so they'd probably be found near that place with the Big Lion Statues at the front. Art Gallery? Library? Museum?, I never really knew I just remember the really Big Lions.

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I did find what you typed though coolbreeze to be quite insightful, likely totally on-point and frankly surprising to me personally because I prior to reading your post had no thing even close to an inkling that there was a possible "defense", like, actual "valid reason" (at least in the female's eyes) for her just splitting but your post made me able to see it from what might have been her angle so I was very pleasantly surprised at the intelligence and insight of your post into how the female brain "works". Fascinating.
 

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I'd say most chicks would be pretty upset given this scenario. She was probably all excited about having a fun night, forgetting about her ex, and banging you all night like there's no tomorrow. But instead she shows up and can clearly tell you've been sleeping, which to her meant that you weren't all that excited about having a fun night and making her the #1 priority for the evening, which in turn said to her that if this guy isn't making me a priority right now when we first start dating then how in the hell is he going to treat me a year or even 5 years from now. You were probably in the shower with all that shit running through her head and she decided to bail. All that said, chicks are crazy, but this was the type of mistake you'd probably want to make after going out with someone ten+ times, not right at the beginning. Just my 2 cents.

Let's not forget the little detail that SHE pursued ME though. She started with the texts, she started flirting, she volunteered to come over here the night before, and she asked me to dinner that night.

So it's inaccurate to paint a picture of "I was courting her" but I wasn't "chivalrous enough".

She was the one that wanted to get banged. I couldn't really care less. It's not that I don't like pussy, or that I get SO MUCH of it. I just wasn't really that into this girl.

So maybe in this day and age of gender equality, she should have been the one trying to impress me.

How many millions of times in the history of mankind has a man gone to pick up a woman for a date and she was not ready yet, and he was left waiting on the couch for a lot longer than 11 minutes? And if that happened, and the dude split without saying anything while she was getting ready, he would be an asshole, no? The guy wouldn't be thinking "wow I was excited to see this girl and apparently I am not her #1 priority." He'd be thinking, "wow I hope she hurries the hell up so we can get to dinner and then hopefully down to business later."

Of course men and women think differently, but the fact remains that she was courting me. That doesn't allow me to act however I want with impunity, but it should buy me a little bit of slack for an honest mistake for which I apologized profusely.
 

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Ba‘al Zəvûv;11117333 said:
Short-sightedness on her part indeed, best illustration in a while for not seeing the forest for the trees. There are Women who, as unlikely as it sounds in Today's World and this "me-me-me" generation, for whom their Default is Compassion. Which is to say that their most immediate (natural) reaction would be to sympathize with their partner. rather than indulge their own insecure self's request.

Hella hard to locate such a Woman of course. But there are a few of them out there. maybe even in Chicago.

If so they'd probably be found near that place with the Big Lion Statues at the front. Art
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Gallery? Library? Museum?, I never really knew I just remember the really Big Lions.


I did find what you typed though coolbreeze to be quite insightful, likely totally on-point and frankly surprising to me personally because I prior to reading your post had no thing even close to an inkling that there was a possible "defense", like, actual "valid reason" (at least in the female's eyes) for her just splitting but your post made me able to see it from what might have been her angle so I was very pleasantly surprised at the intelligence and insight of your post into how the female brain "works". Fascinating.



fixed your post :toast: Art Institute
 

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How many millions of times in the history of mankind has a man gone to pick up a woman for a date and she was not ready yet, and he was left waiting on the couch for a lot longer than 11 minutes?

NO woman in the entire history of humanity has ever been ready to go when a man showed up to pick them up for a date. coolbreeze would likely have good insight into why this is but I think its a function of "ego", like, "I'm gonna illustrate how special I am by forcing him to wait for my special self"

if the dude split without saying anything while she was getting ready.......????

Great illustration of how truly different the genders are. How totally ludicrous would it be for a guy to split, how utterly condemned & ridiculed would he be for leaving yet when a female leaves cuz the guy is not ready for some reason consideration is given to whether the dude was in the wrong.

You see how its all just a massive set-up? An enormous conspiracy/brainwashing women have woven upon the world?

These Girls Are Good.

They've won.
 
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Put $100 on norway at 3:59 pm. It never came off the board...and then realized it was tomorrow. I hate when I do that
 
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Oops sorry man. Wrong thread of yours lol
 

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Put $100 on norway at 3:59 pm. It never came off the board...and then realized it was tomorrow. I hate when I do that

Yeah, you're not alone. I and others thought this game was today for a few days now, like, literally back into the weekend. Toss some Beer Money on Norway ML +1100ish too just for the hell of it. Both of these squads are comfortable w/in their Group will advance easily Norway has beaten this team is fully aware that most of the planet thinks they ain't good enough to beat badass Germany but they are good enough to beat Germany and at 11/1 its worth a shot. If they manage to pull it off you'd be having a very good time...assuming you'll watch the game that is. if they don't, so what. Game could very very likely end in a Draw but NOR+1100 is at the least a wonderful Contrarian Play and IMO at least has an above average chance at cashing.

It should be a very competitive game.
 

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Ba‘al Zəvûv;11117379 said:
Yeah, you're not alone. I and others thought this game was today for a few days now, like, literally back into the weekend. Toss some Beer Money on Norway ML +1100ish too just for the hell of it. Both of these squads are comfortable w/in their Group will advance easily Norway has beaten this team is fully aware that most of the planet thinks they ain't good enough to beat badass Germany but they are good enough to beat Germany and at 11/1 its worth a shot. If they manage to pull it off you'd be having a very good time...assuming you'll watch the game that is. if they don't, so what. Game could very very likely end in a Draw but NOR+1100 is at the least a wonderful Contrarian Play and IMO at least has an above average chance at cashing.

It should be a very competitive game.

Yeah +1.5 at plus money is a steal.
 

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Guys, guys. Get this soccer talk out of my thread.

I feel dirty now for having read it.
 

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Guys, guys. Get this soccer talk out of my thread.

I feel dirty now for having read it.

It's women's soccer though, and you obviously need to get in touch with your feminine side. Watching these hot blonde Norwegians beat the germans is what you need.

You should invite her over and have her give you a blow job while you watch the game.
 

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Yeah +1.5 at plus money is a steal.

Should be. History/Skill levels of these squads + situation them both comfy in the Group they share Germany prevailing by 2 (or more) would be as stunning an outcome as Spain's 1-1 DRAW after they outshot those beautiful Costa Rican Girls 19-3 and 8-1 Shots on Goal. Just hella hard to see Germany romping over a Norway squad with a chance to stun the world vs. a team they've beaten before and when they lost it was by a hard fought 1-0. :toast:
 

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It's women's soccer though, and you obviously need to get in touch with your feminine side. Watching these hot blonde Norwegians beat the germans is what you need.

You should invite her over and have her give you a blow job while you watch the game.

Exactly. Still on topic. You totally need to get in touch with your feminine side. Were you...in touch with it you'd have been able to anticipate her reaction and avoided this whole mess.
 

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So, small updates.

We actually met through a couple I know; she is friends with the wife. Had the couple over the other night for dinner. My friend basically apologized to me, saying she was told the story and how ridiculous it sounded. So there are females out there that recognize how ridiculous this behavior was.

It has been 8 days since this happened, not a peep has been spoken/texted/facebooked either way. Then she liked one of my fb photos this morning that I had posted maybe 3-4 days ago. So she's nudging me. I'm not going to contact this girl though, she'll have to come back to me. Even then I'd have to gauge what she says and how she approaches it before deciding whether to even entertain spending more time with her.
 

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My friend basically apologized to me, saying she was told the story and how ridiculous it sounded. So there are females out there that recognize how ridiculous this behavior was.

Exactly. You have there, in the friend mentioned, a female that is not manipulative, divisive, plotting, selfish and unintelligent but wise.

"Defaults to empathy, compassion" when confronted by conflict with her mate....this friend....very probably. They type of female I said was out there.

It has been 8 days since this happened, not a peep has been spoken/texted/facebooked either way. Then she liked one of my fb photos this morning that I had posted maybe 3-4 days ago. So she's nudging me. I'm not going to contact this girl though, she'll have to come back to me. Even then I'd have to gauge what she says and how she approaches it before deciding whether to even entertain spending more time with her.

Exactly. Of course she did. "Manipulate That Man: How to Train a Man and Make Him Your Slave" by Anastasha Perra Del Mal advises 8 days exactly and no more than 10 in this Training Module, in these the early stages of your Training.

Who do you Like in the Hawks/Bolts game tonight? And what are your thoughts on the total?
 

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Ba‘al Zəvûv;11120233 said:
Exactly. Of course she did. "Manipulate That Man: How to Train a Man and Make Him Your Slave" by Anastasha Perra Del Mal advises 8 days exactly and no more than 10 in this Training Module, in these the early stages of your Training.

Is this a real thing?

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Who do you Like in the Hawks/Bolts game tonight? And what are your thoughts on the total?

I'm surely the wrong guy to ask. I think the Hawks will win, I really do. I will humor you though and spell out my thought process:

  • Take a look at their playoff record in games 5-7 the last 6 years (with this core and coach). They get better as the series goes on, that's an indisputable fact.
  • People call the Bolts road warriors but the Hawks also sport a very respectable 7-5 mark on the road this postseason, 30-22 regular season.
  • Tampa hasn't exactly held down home ice this postseason, with a 6-6 record.
  • We either get a hurt Bishop or a second look at Vasilevskiy. If it's the former I think we can take advantage of his injury. He's leaning left pretty bad. If it's the latter I think we will bury some of those rebounds and empty nets this time around. For these reasons I also lean over.
  • TJ banged up is a big deal, as the Hawks have absolutely dominated faceoffs.
  • Hawks have not played a good game this series and are due for a good game. That's more of a gut feel thing than a stat-driven opinion. Of course some credit goes to Tampa for holding us down, but even the best defensive game plan can only hold down this much offensive firepower for so long.
  • I'm a giant fucking homer and I think my team will win every game.
 

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Is this a real thing?

No.

Behaving as she did then dropping a Like 8 days later, bating a tiny trap designed for you to reach out, for YOU to be the one to initiate re-contact (while in truth she did, with the like) is Manipulative Bitch 101 as it places the power ("Upper Hand") squarely on her side, upon her return.


Initially, yes, it was an attempt at humor...asking which side you like lol.

Then I realized Ai really did want your thoughts on the total.

Bishop out is roadblock, an impassable object for me on this game. I'm stuck
 

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