Ethical Dilemma - Cruise is at it again

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It went surprisingly well today with my manager.

A monkey has been lifted.
 

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Thanks for the update. I was afraid I was going to have to watch 'As the world turns' to get my soap opera fix in for today


say what you will, this thread filled up 5 pages pretty quickly and it was worth following up on.

Feel free not to click on threads you don't find interesting.
 

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So what did she say?
how long did it last?
when is your last day at old job. When is first day at new job
 

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say what you will, this thread filled up 5 pages pretty quickly and it was worth following up on.

Feel free not to click on threads you don't find interesting.

Are you really that naive that you think the views on this thread to find out about your decision?

You created a soap opera. Everyone just had their popcorn ready to see what's next.

Continue on. @)
 

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Are you really that naive that you think the views on this thread to find out about your decision?

You created a soap opera. Everyone just had their popcorn ready to see what's next.

Continue on. @)

of course not, I know that people log on to the RX to see EVERYTHING i have to say, not just this one thread. Don't be silly.
 

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I am going to get destroyed for posting this. Oh well, I deserve it and the threads have been really boring lately anyway.

I could turn this into a really long and complicated story, because it is one (trust me). But I will keep it as short as I possibly can to spare everyone. It could be so much longer if I explained all of the variables.

So here is the short and sweet version. I started a new job less than 2 weeks ago and I have just accepted a better one. A horrible ethical move, I know.

I'm in my mid 20's and I work in banking/financial services and I am a licensed Financial Advisor. This was one of the hardest decisions I have ever had to make. A few months back, I was interviewing with 3 different companies. All are huge fortune 500 firms. Company A was the job I really wanted, but after the fourth interview I did not hear from them for over two weeks. I assumed I was done. Company B and Company C both offered me a position. I went with Company B, which was more of a management role then a financial sales one. It is a great company with amazing benefits and wonderful people. Just a few days after I accepted the position, Company A (my initial #1 choice) called me for a fifth and sixth interview. Long story short, they ended up making me an offer and I was left with a very difficult decision. In the end, I accepted their offer. This role utilizes my Investment Advisor Licenses (which I would have lost at company B) and is a leadership position as well. While my present position with company B offers fantastic growth potential, this one at Company A opens even more doors for me in virtually every aspect of financial services, commercial banking, and management. Further, the moment I walk in the door for my first day at Company A, I will automatically become the #1 person in the country in this particular position based on (luckily) being placed in an outstanding location. I am not looking forward to telling my boss that I am already leaving for a different company, but that is the decision that I made that I believe to be the best for me. I feel horrible about it because I believe that I should be a man of my word and stick with the commitment that I have made. But in the end I simply could not turn company A down, because it will instantly, vastly improve my lifestyle and point me in the right direction long term.


On a side note (and this is not an excuse): Even though I have only been at company B for two weeks, it has not lived up to my expectations and I have found that a lot of things the interviewers told me not to be true. It just hasn't felt right from the start.

ALWAYS LOOK OUT FOR #1.

#1 is you. Just tell them you didn't get good vibes about the position, company etc. Employers can be fired as well.
 

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I swear justin comes off just like jaguara.
 

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Are you really that naive that you think the views on this thread to find out about your decision?

You created a soap opera. Everyone just had their popcorn ready to see what's next.

Continue on. @)

Bingo. i'll say a large majority of the people that read this thread or the last thread did so not cause they are truely interested in your life. I mean, you seem like a decent enough guy to me and I hope all goes well for you at your new job, and I don't blame you for taking it but i'd say alot of people click on this thread cause there is a chance you're a train wreck waiting to happen. It's like reality TV. First you blame Obama for you not getting a job and now you got what? 3 or 4 job offers in less then a month? its great reading and dialogue no matter what actually happens. Its like Gold Rush. Some people watch hoping they all hit the American dream while others watch to see what dumb thing Todd Hoffman says next.

With that said, carry on.
 

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Bingo. i'll say a large majority of the people that read this thread or the last thread did so not cause they are truely interested in your life. I mean, you seem like a decent enough guy to me and I hope all goes well for you at your new job, and I don't blame you for taking it but i'd say alot of people click on this thread cause there is a chance you're a train wreck waiting to happen. It's like reality TV. First you blame Obama for you not getting a job and now you got what? 3 or 4 job offers in less then a month? its great reading and dialogue no matter what actually happens. Its like Gold Rush. Some people watch hoping they all hit the American dream while others watch to see what dumb thing Todd Hoffman says next.

With that said, carry on.

I have never said it was obamas sole fault for lack of jobs. I said the president has to take some responsibility for the state of the economy instead of everyone giving him a free pass and blaming 100 percent of it on bush. So i said obama contributed, no one in their right mind would say it is entirely his fault.
With that said, carry on
 

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Bingo. i'll say a large majority of the people that read this thread or the last thread did so not cause they are truely interested in your life. I mean, you seem like a decent enough guy to me and I hope all goes well for you at your new job, and I don't blame you for taking it but i'd say alot of people click on this thread cause there is a chance you're a train wreck waiting to happen. It's like reality TV. First you blame Obama for you not getting a job and now you got what? 3 or 4 job offers in less then a month? its great reading and dialogue no matter what actually happens. Its like Gold Rush. Some people watch hoping they all hit the American dream while others watch to see what dumb thing Todd Hoffman says next.

With that said, carry on.
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not sure where this thread went haywire, the first couple pages were pretty useful and actually made me feel better about my decision. It's good to know that most others would have done the same thing.
 

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