Strongly disagree with this post. If he already caused problems his parents might disown him in a way, especially since he is old enough to be kicked out now.
They may love him but there is a point where trust is destroyed and they will feel betrayed. If they leave him and he is forced to leave the house he will have to pay for living expenses on top of his debt. Most parents in this country and not good enough to stand by their child side through multiple issues even if he has a problem.
I'll tell you this. After talking to him for an hour tonight, he's not lying. He's in trouble and has no clue how to get out of it. He doesn't know how to set up a payment plan and he is scared because he's a kid in an adults world right now. I'd assume that he thinks the payment plan won't be enough but these guys would take 500 a month as long as it meant they were getting their money.
Will I toss him the money? Probably and I know many say it won't help but to see someone suffer and live in fear isn't a fun. I don't know him personally and he probably won't pay me back but that's life.
I truly believe he is going to try and prevent future gambling. Could he relapse? Yes, just like any other addiction it's tough to overcome it. If he goes to GA and his leader comes in contact with any of us I'd trust his sincerity much more. I don't think he is scamming anyone, but I also understand all the bullshit he is taking.
I don't agree with either side because I understand everyone has problems, but I also understand that many have worked through their problems w/o the help of others. Sometimes you need help and support. He said his friends have given him money and he's paid more than 3 grand already, but he doesn't have 10 grand. I know I haven't been here long and my word means nothing, but I figured I'd fill everyone in.
I do have to say that the "fake" phone conversation may be the funniest thing I've ever read.
Solid post. After reading through this long drawn out RX version of The Young and the Restless I have to say I believe the kid. Now think back when you were 18 years old. I don't know about you guys but I wanted to drink beer, play sports and chase tail. This guy is scared for his life because he owes a lot of money. I'm not dropping him a penny because I have mouths to feed but everyone just cut him a little slack if you can.
lmao.
I probably shouldn't be laughing if this dude is seriously in trouble (although it is his fault and he's being a pussy about it), but that was funny.
But seriously punz, you're not listening to anybody. The only answer for you has been said at least 50 times. Ask your parents for the money or meet with the guys and set up a payment plan. If they kick you out, oh well, maybe you'll learn the hard way. I was honestly threatened to get kicked out of my house when I was in high school at least 10 times and it's usually all bluffs to get you to act better and I'm sure it's the same in your case, especially if you tell them you'll go to GA.
Those are your two options, like it or not. Nobody is giving you a fucking $11 K handout because you're too dumb to realize you shouldn't be betting money you don't have. Just accept your options and try the payment plan at first with the most you can pay a week, and if they say no to that get your parents to help, even if it means getting kicked out (and honestly dude, do you not have any friends that would let you crash with them for a while?).
