I think what defying was trying to do was try to protect BAs reputation .My question is----why send more funds to a guy that already owed you 30k for 2 years?
Other question---- why not be upfront that you paid contest winners and allowing BAS time to recover and re-pay you? You allowed him to return; he made it as if he paid off all contest winners and anyone that ever questioned him was an "idiot."
I never implied you were a stiff.
Why he would take such a risk for someone he probably never met who knows.
But if defying would have had to announce that he was the one paying the contest winners it would have kinda of defeated the purpose
BAs would have still looked bad in that spot .
As for your first question I have no fucking clue lol.
Pretty dumb thing to do