i don't know shit about relationships but i do know that if you're consistently having doubts about if she's a woman you want to spend significant time with on a regular basis, let alone get hitched, then you're better off looking elsewhere. people don't want to die alone (or so ive been told) but sometimes convenience can be sacrificed if you're still looking for that true love. good luck big man i hope you get shit figured out...
this all coming from a guy that has always flip flopped on how he feels about certain girls---every time ive let them go...just not fair to them or me