Anyone else ever have this problem with a particular woman? This is not good...

[Journeyman]

For the most part, you'll be the outsider. The woman & son will always be together, you on the other hand are disposable.

That is true, and I have a daughter as well.

 

[CY18]

Chris. I really hope that we have this conversation again when you have about 30 more years on this earth. You seem like a very knowlegeable young man.
Another thing when, and if,you get married and you are listening to your wife telling your daughter the facts of life, and what to look for and what to lookout for. You might, just might change your mind.
Maybe this happened to me Only in this world...........nahhhhhhhh NO way! Have heard to many others in my life telling the same story about women with children. Hope things work out for ALL of us.

I agree that women are bonded to their children, but if the husband and her love each other they do their part. There are many good familes with two working parents and they raise kids and are happy. It's not everyone obviously, but women have a lot of say in what happens to the kids obviously. I saw it growing up.

 

[CY18]

That is true, and I have a daughter as well.

I am glad you have a purpose journeyman and I am sure you are a good father to her.

 

[Insiders]

Chris.

Chuck Simms summs it up rather nicely. The man in ANY relationship will ALWAYS be disposable.

 

[Journeyman]

Michael77 has a point:

Ya get screwed by on a bet, ya dont have to explain it to anyone else ... and when ya win on a bet you dont have to share the winnings with anyone else

She doesn't like sports at all...I was watching the World Series at her house and I felt like I was offending her....she is athletic atleast,I just feel like I am too picky....the thing that really bothers me though is I cannot make up my mind....I have written her off 50 times, lol, I can't tell you how many times I have left her house and in my head planned on never coming back.

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[Dubpoet]

She wants you to Moderate for free?

My Father told me one thing about Women:

Never let them know how much you care!!

 

[Journeyman]

I am glad you have a purpose journeyman and I am sure you are a good father to her.

Now that is my one claim to fame.

thanks

 

[CY18]

Chris.

Chuck Simms summs it up rather nicely. The man in ANY relationship will ALWAYS be disposable.

Women choose their men. I agree. If you find a good one though than there are no problems. It's tough, but just gotta take it one day at a time.

 

[Journeyman]

She doesn't like sports at all...I was watching the World Series at her house and I felt like I was offending her....she is athletic atleast,I just feel like I am too picky....the thing that really bothers me though is I cannot make up my mind....I have written her off 50 times, lol, I can't tell you how many times I have left her house and in my head planned on never coming back.

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[Insiders]

One other thing about realtionships that i have learned the hard way is "If you look back, you might or will go back"

 

[CY18]

She doesn't like sports at all...I was watching the World Series at her house and I felt like I was offending her....she is athletic atleast,I just feel like I am too picky....the thing that really bothers me though is I cannot make up my mind....I have written her off 50 times, lol, I can't tell you how many times I have left her house and in my head planned on never coming back.

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Heading to bed in a minute. It might be just one of those relationships where you grow as a person. Sometimes we must say to ourself what makes us personally happy.

Would you even consider being married? If you don't think so then move or if you don't know then keep going.

I am just the type that doesn't get into something unless I think it can get serious and could lead to something more.

 

[Journeyman]

When you're in your 30's though, it gets harder to find the total package without any flaws...actually that can be said for any age...it does get harder though.

 

[Journeyman]

Heading to bed in a minute. It might be just one of those relationships where you grow as a person. Sometimes we must say to ourself what makes us purposely happy.

Would you even consider being married? If you don't think so then move or if you don't know then keep going.

I am just the type that doesn't get into something unless I think it can get serious and could lead to something more.

Chris I can't say i have ever went out with anyone without thinking 'this could be the one' well maybe once or twice but that is always my goal.

 

[Dubpoet]

When you're in your 30's though, it gets harder to find the total package without any flaws...actually that can be said for any age...it does get harder though.

Not true my friend.

Have a nice place and sharp car and they come a running.

No korean cars.

 

[Insiders]

Women choose their men. I agree. If you find a good one though than there are no problems. It's tough, but just gotta take it one day at a time.

Well men choose thier women as well. But its HARD to choose when you have mixed emtions about the baggage, that BOTH sides usually bring along.
Yes i agree its a VERY tought choice in life, maybe thats why sooooooo many couples just live together for long periods of time in these days an times?
obtw the older one gets in life the pool SHRINKS in choices as those women with children are going to have Grandchildren soon an then its REALLY a tuff deal.

 

[Journeyman]

Have a nice place and sharp car and they come a running.

No korean cars.

Been there done that , lol at korean car joke :lolBIG:

 

[CY18]

When you're in your 30's though, it gets harder to find the total package without any flaws...actually that can be said for any age...it does get harder though.

I am at the age where most girls don't have kids and are getting their lives togerher. Yeah I know. I know you can't plan everything out, but I will be with someone long term by 30. I am with the one I truly love and she loves me back, but it's a work in progress and when we have been through so much these last 3 years.

I believe love does exist and you just have to find someone who supports you the way you support them.

Have a good nite everyone.

Chris

 

[CY18]

Well men choose thier women as well. But its HARD to choose when you have mixed emtions about the baggage, that BOTH sides usually bring along.
Yes i agree its a VERY tought choice in life, maybe thats why sooooooo many couples just live together for long periods of time in these days an times?
obtw the older one gets in life the pool SHRINKS in choices as those women with children are going to have Grandchildren soon an then its REALLY a tuff deal.

It's important to see if this can be long term. Yup. My sister and her boyfriend live together, bought a house, and both work. Haven't gotten married yet, but they are saving their money. So yup. I agree.

 

[CY18]

Have a good nite journeyman. I hope I helped a little at least.

Hang in there.

You will figure it out.

Mine isn't a big sports girl either, but we get along great.

 

[Journeyman]

Chris you are unique for your age...most people that start that young won't last, i won't say that with you though, you seem much older than your years.