Would you be upset if your new wife decided to keep her surname ?

[halekulani]

my mom didn't
i even address letters to my mom's maiden name

 

[Doug]

Both of my exes kept my name, which I always thought was weird

Yeah, you'd think after a divorce they would want to lose the name ! Maybe they want to appear to be still married to people they only know casually and/ or the paperwork to change it back is a PIA ?

 

[SgtLanquel]

Ownership of women has been a popular priority in many cultures for centuries.

My first wife took my last name and has never changed it in the 24 years since our divorce

My current wife of course kept her last name and I approve as it gives me an in with the Tribe when their world domination is finally achieved

 

[Jstack34]

Yes I would

In my opinion it means she's not 100% committed to you and the partnership between you two.

Others will say that's not the case but if not then what would be the big deal to change her name if you're everything to her?

Or she could use both last names if she doesn't have a middle name or substitute with it.

Why don't you take her last name? Are you not 100% committed in that case?

Just because tradition says to take one name?

 

[beefdiesel]

I believe if you are in a loving committed marriage your wife should take your last name, if she refuses then it’s not a marriage.

 

[RunMaker]

Ownership of women has been a popular priority in many cultures for centuries.

My first wife took my last name and has never changed it in the 24 years since our divorce

My current wife of course kept her last name and I approve as it gives me an in with the Tribe when their world domination is finally achieved

Lol.

We got a woke dude here?

You getting ready for the next war they're ramping up... ?


"I repeat... Saddam has weapons of mass destruction"...

 

[TomGshotput]

I insist she doesn't take my name. I want my independence

 

[TomGshotput]

I believe if you are in a loving committed marriage your wife should take your last name, if she refuses then it’s not a marriage.

That's why it's so perfect she doesn't take my name. I get sex, health insurance, someone to pay half the bills, and it doesn't even count as being married

 

[DesertDevil]

I insist she doesn't take my name. I want my independence

You still compete in eating, Tom?

 

[TomGshotput]

I insist she doesn't take my name. I want my independence

You still compete in eating, Tom?

Did two last month for 4/20, but not too often. Only two other times in 2017 and 18. Last good paying one were a few Japanese TV shows in 2014-15

 

[Doug]

We have a pretty equal split

No leading 11-10

 

[5teamparlay]

Yes - first marriage only


2nd marriage etc. who cares unless kids are involved.