WOMAN advice PLEASE...HOW TO ASK A BANK TELLER OUT???

[gamblingislife]

<BLOCKQUOTE class="ip-ubbcode-quote"><font size="-1">quote:</font><HR>Originally posted by 8isenough:
LMAO @ Judge! Just ask her if you can hit it bro!! Make sure if you get her back to your place you clean all your love juice off of the computer!

<HR></BLOCKQUOTE>pathetic yet funny!!!!!!!

 

[raiders72001]

Here's the plan. You go in on a Tues or Wed and ask her out for a Sat. night. It looks like you're a little up tight about this so the best thing to do is ask her out to a movie and then go out to eat. If you go out to eat first it can be awkward but going to a movie first will give you time to relax around her. Now here's the important part. You ask her to go out on a specific day Sat. This way instead of saying no she can always say I have this and this to do Sat. She may say I can go next week or just leave it at that. Here's the good part if she says she's busy and leaves it at that keep going into the bank. Girls often change their minds. Also she may have a boyfriend and you have your foot in the door if there's a break up you're in.
Another point is even if she says no flat out there's lots of fish in the ocean. I don't know what kind of bait you are but throw anything out there enough and the fish will bite. Just remember don't get mad or angry either way. Never scare the fish off.

 

[JackDee]

i think you gotta find some good pretexts to see here a couple of times more before making any move. Is she just a teller or does she have some, anything to do with investment, credit card advice blah blah, if so you can prolong your tet a tet with some "investment" chit chat and get a little more personal. I am not suggesting you take your sweet time, but knowing someone longer, even if that means just exchanging a few hi's and how are you's, and some trivial chit chat, it always helps to break the ice, to be more familiar, that does matter to women, a woman might fancy you but being too up front can scare one away.

I d discard the note or flower strategy, both of them are way too banal and innefective as well, flowers seems too agressive a way to go, since you really just fancy her, and as don rightly said, flowers are more of romance thing for woman, and might seem a bit too abrupt to a complete stranger.

Also, try to size her up. Some women like men to be more up front, others not. I know that trying to conjure up some psychological profile of a girl you really fancy can be a hard thing to do, but it always helps me when i get a better idea of who i am dealing with, you crack a joke and sense she likes it you go along that way, you say another thing and you notice it's not sinking in, you try something different.

Chat up lines are boring, and film materials.

Bottom line, i d find some good pretext to go and see her a couple of times more, try to start up a few brief and trivial, but personal, chit chat, maybe have a friend call you when you are there on the cellular and say something personal about yourself, not bragging or anything just something that d make you seem more intimate to her, or say something you then feed back into some conversation with her. And then after a couple of times, you can tentatively try to make some smooth transition from the trivial chit chat to asking her out, say you are talking about your car breaking down, and you go, as much as i like driving i wouldn't mind you giving me a lift and then i can get us some coffe/dinner blah, blah, if you cannot make the transition smoothly, just ask her out with any line that comes to mind, women appreciate when someone's interested in them, and usually say yes.

 

[qwerty90210]

i know for sure i need to talk to her more before i ask her out.

our conversations are pretty much the hi, how are you, please deposit, thanks, have a good day.

i need to ask her questions.

she is no more than a teller, young and probably still in school or just out of school. i'm young too and out of school for a couple years, so the age would not be a problem.

before i make a move i need to go in there a few more times, and hint that i'm interested.

i can only go there on saturday, because the bank closes before i get home from work.

i can also go in there if i have an off day from work.

but now that summer hours are coming up, i'll stop in on fridays.

90210

 

[irishpub]

Switch banks, young hot tellers are already climbing that said bosses ladder. That is why they always hire hot interns.

 

[outandup]

OK, this is very easy. No need to spend a dime unless you're getting a little action. So the flowers are out. If you call, hell she may not even put your name with a face and she'll think you're chicken shit.

Next time you go to the bank, just say "nice ring or watch or necklace, Where did your boyfriend buy the ring" (maybe you want to get your mother one) If she says "no I don't have a boyfriend". Now you know you're atleast in the game. And if she has a boyfriend you don't have to be shot down because she already has one.

Then you just ask her the no pressure way. Would you like to go out some time? If she says no, then you're out. If she says yes, then you say great I'll call you. Simple short and sweet. Then you wait a week and call her at the bank. If you call to soon she'll think you're a desperate little weasal that can't get laid. Make sure you follow all steps, especially waiting a week to call her.

 

[vegasguy39]

Depends on what you are looking for.
If you are looking for a wife, then try the flowers. If you are looking to get laid, then just ask her out.

 

[jwunderdog]

Stalk her, that will get her attention. If that doesn't work how about this line " I would like to open your safe deposit BOX and the key is in my pants: What do you say?"

 

[gold64]

Just Tell Her.


You want to have Drinks and Dinner with Her TONIGHT.


You'll know\She'll either say Yes Or No.

 

[PanchoSanza]

How big is the bank?

Pass a note to another teller with your phone number on it, ask her to pass it to the girl your interested in.

It worked for me about 15 years ago.

Too bad she turned out to be a religious nut, said she couldn't have sex with me unless I married her.

 

[Oren1]

try this one:
"are the other tellers jealous, since your the prettiest girl here?"

I've been saving that one up, let me know if it works.

or is that way too cheesy?

 

[qwerty90210]

and not my style, but thanks for replying


thanks to all for the feedback, it still might be a month or so before i make my move.

gonna take it slow, come try and feel things out w/ her.

i need to say hi, deposit please, cash this check please, have a good day BEFORE i make my play.

90210

 

[winkyduck]

my advice: pull down your pants and tell her you'd like to make a deposit in her mouth and p*ssy! that might work

 

[Jabow]

My Advise to you is this.

1. You're having too short a conversation with her when you're at the bank, you should have been making small talk all the while, gaining her friendship and trust, find out if she has a boyfriend, and let her know if he slips up, you're there for her, or if he knows how lcky he is to have such a wonderful person like herself.

If she's a bitch, your deposits would have her smiling and willing to go out with you, boyfriend or not.
If she's cool, then she'll still go out with you but after you've gained her friendship and trust.
If she's really cute, she has a million guys telling her shit everyday, moreso as shes dealing with the public everyday.
But remember your balance and deposit will make a difference no matter what anyone says, the good and bad ones are looking for stability and a guy who can stand his own, unless her family has dough, look at how she dresses, make up etc, the warning signs are always there you just have to look.

 

[Angelle]

And you didn't ask a girl?

gee I feel left out...
I mean i should know what works and what doesn't

 

[RPM]

qwerty,

WITHDRAW AN OBSENE AMOUNT OF MONEY, TELL HER YOU ARE GOING ON A DAY TRIP TO..._________________ (insert destination) and invite her to come with you.


HOPE IT WORKS OUT!~ GOOD LUCK

 

[DonMarco]

<BLOCKQUOTE class="ip-ubbcode-quote"><font size="-1">quote:</font><HR>Originally posted by RPM:
qwerty,

WITHDRAW AN OBSENE AMOUNT OF MONEY, TELL HER YOU ARE GOING ON A DAY TRIP TO..._______vegas ?

__________ (insert destination) and invite her to come with you.


HOPE IT WORKS OUT!~ GOOD LUCK<HR></BLOCKQUOTE>

 

[Phaedrus]

qwerty, this situation hasn't evolved thusly has it? Are you this woman's "mystery benefactor?"

If not, this might give you an idea on how to influence her, if you don't ever just get up the nuts to ask her out ...

Phaedrus

 

[kerriwonder]

lol! you guys are silly.

go slow joe. ask her to lunch first. less for her to be afraid of because she knows its only for an hour at most. if she has a b/f she will prolly say no. dont use any lame lines on her at lunch. just talk to her and listen to her. when you walk her back to the bank hint at another lunch but not the next day and find out if its okay with her. go slow.

 

[RPM]

JEEZ KERRI, it'll take him months to get in her pants at that pace.

welcome to the rx by the way!~