Why?
It's my assumption that "gay" is definied as being attracted to the same sex.
So because you like the feeling of something up your ass, that means you're gay? That doesn't make any sense to me, based on the definition.
I think people are being pretty close-minded about this. Granted, I wouldn't try it, but I'm not going to call any guy who enjoys this gay, especially when it's one of the erogenous zones.
X-Files, how did you ever get started doing that? WTF happened that first time, what compelled you do stick something up there? I don't get that, so anyone with experience, please share. That's the only thing that baffles me, I just don't get it.
I am pushing 50 & only started doing this about 7 years ago. I had
read about it and saw toys being used on females in the same way
in internet porn. From there i guess it just happened naturally and
spontaneously like the first times masterbating. My wife had also
touched me in that spot, though from the outside as Xpanda was
describing in this thread. In my experience it is not something that
is practised at the start of a sexual session, but the longer it goes
the more i am inclined towards. The exception to that would be
when i haven't cum for a relatively long time, for me 2 days or more,
in which case i might get into it almost immediately, as that area is
bound to be more aroused/turned on.