So, since you seem to be a bit thick-headed, let me present to you a hypothetical.
Say you are a 21 year old college kid, out partying at someone's house one night. Some 40+ year old male slips you a date rape drug, and when you start feeling sleepy/sick and
head to a bedroom, he follows you and proceeds to drill you in the ass like a fucking jack-hammer.
You wake up a few hours later with him laying beside you with a raging hard-on, wanting to go for more.
You are so embarrassed, you high-tail it out of there, and don't say anything for years. Well, a number of years later, he is in court being accused of another homosexual date rape, but they're about to throw it out of court for lack of corroborating evidence.
Do you come forward? And, if you do, are you a sleaze bag, and a "publicity seeking shitbag?"