If anyone needs his information, I fully doxed him and his wife and am waiting for a response to proceed further with contacting law enforcement.
As a paramedic / fire fighter and former Air Force, I admire the service he has provided, but not being able to repay is one thing, but going dark and breaking promises that are within his ability to fulfill is not acceptable. His wife was also brought into this story by him, and will be contacted, as I wouldn't imagine either one would enjoy having someone from law enforcement visit them. Their personal issues are their own to deal with.