I didn't know I had all these enemies here.
You don't have a ton of enemies here. What you have are a bunch of people who disagree with what you're doing. That doesn't make them your enemies.
Include me in that group. I know you're a nice guy, a good poster, and generally a well-intentioned person...but that still doesn't justify this.
I don't care if this guy told you that he was gonna murder your parents if you didn't pay up; that's no excuse to withhold the money that you owe him.
You're not the victim here, he is. You owe him money, not vice versa. If the guy got a little too heated because you were slow-paying, then that's his prerogative. Sure, it might've been out of line, but that doesn't change the fact that you owe the guy money, and owe him now.
Imagine being in his shoes...he watches you post your wagers every single day, but you can't scrape together his $100? That's totally unacceptable. What a slap in the face that must be to him, every single fucking day. Considering that, the way he's handled this situation is borderline-commendable, because I sure as hell would've been a lot less forgiving than he has been. If someone was stiffing me yet continued to post wagers daily, I'd be bashing like no other, as I'm sure others would. This guy gave you a chance to pay in a timely fashion, and you didn't. That's your fault, and he is justified in being angry.
This reminds me of the BowlMeOne-MadCapper situation. Only I've never met or really interacted with MC, so I can't speak to his character outside of his stiff-job. But Gyno, you're better than this. Stop trying to justify your actions and just pay the guy, get it over with.
No one's out to get you, no one's your enemy in this situation. We're all people who just want to see a wrong get righted, that's all. No hidden agendas.
And as for not caring about posting here, come on now, it's no secret that you enjoy this place and the frequent interaction you have with other posters. In my limited experience in the online gambling forum realm, I haven't seen another site with anywhere near as much traffic and discussion. If there's another forum that can satisfy your need to interact with others online, then so be it. But either way, threatening to leave is weak. Stay or not, you still need to pay this guy now, bottom line.
I hope this situation gets rectified immediately.