Married 20 years this month and the wife just informed me she wants a divorce

[wannabewhale]

Harry
Just take a couple trips across to Sundowners-that will get your juices flowin'

on a side note-you can watch the Bills become the new Cincy Bengals

 

[AR_23]

I never thought a bunch of degenerate gamblers could make me feel better.

:lol:. Hang in there... one of the hardest things to go through i imagine.

 

[ProPokerPlayer]

Best thing that ever happened to me.....Hell the ONLY good thing since 1979...lol

Seriously i know after 20 yrs u cant imagine life without her...But once you do it dont look back. Making your self happy is hard enough without dragging memories around with you every day...

 

[bigbet1234]

What did you expect? Hiding in the basement smoking pot and losing your ass betting sports.

I'd divorce ya too.

 

[bigbet1234]

 

[HacheMan]

Agreed, this will probably piss a few guys off but when a woman cheats on you it's the your fault.

Women only want a couple of things, security and passion. If you can meet those needs women are pretty faithful.

I think there's some truth to what you say above king & why a large percentage of women leave, mostly who are a little older, but not with the younger girls in this generation.

The roles have reversed in the last 20 years & it's now the females (once again the younger generation) who are unfaithful the majority of the time.

Not something I have had done to me personally, but I've seen it so much through the years & even now that I have many, many much younger friends than myself & see it going on, and it's usually the girl doing the guy wrong behind his back. Things have changed so much.

Heck, look at all of the female teachers who continuously get caught with boys in school. Just that alone tells the tale of how society & females have changed......

 

[BadCo]

I never thought a bunch of degenerate gamblers could make me feel better but indeed you all have and thanks. I have no choice but to move on and I will. To be honest with you I realize now we were together for all the wrong reasons. Nice house in the burbs, nice cars, big screen TV's. We were closer when we first got married and had to struggle just to pay our bills. Our son is going to college locally in the fall so he will be around to keep me company.

PS I think I'm just going to take the high road and give her the $700 Christmas tree she bought. Of course I'll be keeping the 58" plasma that I told her only cost 1k.

The best things in life are free,all the money and bragging about all your money does not make a man.

In your next relationship just keep it real

You know act humble,best of luck.

 

[harrington]

The best things in life are free,all the money and bragging about all your money does not make a man.

In your next relationship just keep it real

You know act humble,best of luck.

Couldn't agree with you more. Now I realize how all that "stuff" means nothing. And I have never been one to be humble you are indeed correct. I need to change as a person.

 

[Jetplane]

sorry to hear about this Harrington... hope it all turns out ok.

 

[Seymour]

the family that prays together, stays together

I knew Rail could lighten this thread up.

 

[BostonBettor]

I hate to admit this but if my wife (almost 25 years) were to take a hike, I don't think I'd have a shot at scoring a hot chick. I've kind of let myelf go over the past decade. Hell she's probably sticking around just so she can inherit my money when I have a heart attack. I guess I won't tell her that I've blown most of it on gambling.

Good luck Harrington, and I hope things turn out well for you.

 

[NES]

Time to start making some changes LunchBox, because if you arent taking care of yourself you probably arent taking alot of care with her either.

 

[kingbill]

Couldn't agree with you more. Now I realize how all that "stuff" means nothing. And I have never been one to be humble you are indeed correct. I need to Grow as a person.

Fixed it for you...I've never heard of anyone one their death bed regretting the fact they never owned a second Mercedes...

 

[kingbill]

Time to start making some changes LunchBox, because if you arent taking care of yourself you probably arent taking alot of care with her either.

GSUS this is scary...first movies, now women...we tend to be agreeing to much these days...

 

[NES]

And yet I still avoid you like the plague despite the fact that we are neighbors

 

[whalewager]

His name is Tyrone and he's swinging the lazy 11.

 

[PointGiven]

find another female as soon as possible and bang her...you'll feel better

the best things in life

new money

new pu$$y

:cripwalk:

 

[OnePocket]

Its not any consolation prize as of right now, but it does get better with every day that goes by. I got a divorce 5 yrs ago on my Birthday which will 5 yrs this Tuesday, best Birthday present I have ever gotten, and we were together for 10 yrs.

Keep yourself very busy .... hang out with friends surround yourself around good people that care about you as a friend, fuck every woman you can fat-skinny-beautiful or ugly and it does get better.

remember one thing: 18 to 80 blind-crippled or crazy if they cant walk drag'em.

 

[harrington]

Its not any consolation prize as of right now, but it does get better with every day that goes by. I got a divorce 5 yrs ago on my Birthday which will 5 yrs this Tuesday, best Birthday present I have ever gotten, and we were together for 10 yrs.

Keep yourself very busy .... hang out with friends surround yourself around good people that care about you as a friend, fuck every woman you can fat-skinny-beautiful or ugly and it does get better.

remember one thing: 18 to 80 blind-crippled or crazy if they cant walk drag'em.

@)

 

[barman]

Ayuh....#1 strategy to employ after getting that first bang in is if she starts saying stuff like, "You were awesome! We need to start hanging out more!", then you begin to weep and cry about how "I miss my wife and all my kids!"

She'll be Gone In 60 Seconds and you can move on to creating the next notch on your bedpost.