I don't know much about S. Korea, but have the impression it's not an ultra-poor country like Haiti.
You can't know her too well after a couple of visits,not well enough to marry.
I question her motives behind being willing to come to a far away land. Just to be an American citizen ? Is it that bad there ? There must be men there. Tough to change cultures like this, learn language,etc.
Something seems wrong with this situation to me.
You can't know her too well after a couple of visits,not well enough to marry.
I question her motives behind being willing to come to a far away land. Just to be an American citizen ? Is it that bad there ? There must be men there. Tough to change cultures like this, learn language,etc.
Something seems wrong with this situation to me.
i know it's a little out there , but in a strange way , i like to get feedback , personal attention , advice , n just plain bs time ....it's relaxing for me to solicit a completely unaware audience of who i am ....there is no bias n people can speak freely without hurting my feelings....basically , i 'm entertained by people's honest opinions about situations however personal they maybe....i'm actually very comftorable , maybeto you way too comftorable about my life n descisions ... not that i would ever be swayed 'cause i always march to my own drummer , but once in a whlie its good to get different thoughts ...
a person who knows me may not be so willing to give their unbiased opinion ....of course there is a chance someone might know me by doing this via internet , but like gambling ...the whole process of bearin a part of my life is well worth it and theraputic .:thumbsup:
yes ...i did have a conversation with her n that personal conversation was initiated by me trying to kiss her on da lips ...i noticed her discomfort with that and she explained why ....further, she told me she was saving herself for marriage .
as far as boyfirends ...she's had a childhood friend (from school) who has always liked her , but she never felt for him in that way ( so she says )...also , bein semi attractive , her father once tried to arrange a marriage , but the arrangement was brief cause there was no emotional feeling on her end . even now , she does get hit on , but what can i say ?....I believe her by her actions toward her friends /strangers/ n the way she deals with me .
you know when you talk to someone and people can get a sense or size you up of the person you are even in a brief meeting ?...well...like i said , although you may not know someone completely , you can get a sense of what this person is about even after 2 trips to korea.afterall, Know one Really Knows Anyone Until They Are Actually Married And LIVE WITH Em, right ???:thumbsup:
she was raised in a traditional conservative background ...go to church n study hard n be a good wife someday ....
the way i met her was thru my mother...her friend in korea is neighbor's with my fiancee .....anotherwords , my mother's friend and my fiancee's mother are close ....so that's how this shit started....
after my ex n carl , in my heart i was searching for something different ...it just kind of came together.
Mr.J
You Are Really on The Right track ! I would definitely Agree with You By my own Observations ...
Like I stated, Its A Growing /westernized society But They Still Struggle With The Traditional Conservative Views .... Most Woman Do Try N save themselves but not all...
Its quite A contradiction Actually ...There will Be Wholesome girls out there N yet there Will Be brothels unspoken and hidden thruout the country .:think2:
even if i said that was me n swore up n down u wouldn't believe me or i'd have to prove it.
this isn't the first time i posted my pic...
but ask yerself , why the fvck i would really be postn someone else's pic n wasting my time on this site /
for a prank ? ...perhaps
but i think you guys know me well enough that I ain't bullshittin.:thumbsup:
good luck to you as well...
i applied for a I 129f fiancee visa
I don't know yer situation, but if you want to get her into the states , this maybe the fastest way to go
approx process time..is 6 months ...
u can get married overseas, but logistically with PAPERWork n proof of marriage , its better to do it in the states .
hope we can help each other out if we need it !:thumbsup: :toast:
uke1:doug
you are not alone ...of course this is a bit off the wall ...south korea 's dollar is actually worth more than the us...
for every 1.00 bill / i received just .90 won
the country is not doin that bad whatsoever , but i do have to say AMERICA is still the most amazing country ...I mean EVERYTHING is Just So Much BIGGER in da states n more Plentiful ...Even The Houses , the cars , Parks , brothels , etc ...
But Korea Is Doin well n getting more westernized.
SHE Actually NEVER even Thought about comin OVER ......She's An internet programmar n will Graduate her schooling in sept...meanwhile , she is a waitress n also works part time at a cosmetic shop.
IN everyday life, people are always Missed Thru the shuffle ...I mean We Always Say How EASY it Is To Meet Someone , but if That's The Case , WHY Are There So Many SINgle internet sites ...people Are busy Dude ...Its Not Always Easy N IF WE Werev Introduced via Friends , Doesn't That Make things Easier ? I would say !
I've Dated only a handful of woman in My lifetime / fvcked n paid for many more ....I've Never Even Dreamed of meeting someone Overseas .
To answer your question, SHE"s GIVung UP EVERYTHING ( her language, friends,culture ) to be with me ...That's Why I know that There Is A distinct possibility That SHeis IN LOVE !
I even Suggested that I would Find a job n Live With Her In korea ...Do You know what She Said ? ...That She Would want Me To Live There < But Economically , we have everything already established in the states...house/job/cars /etc...
i don't doubt she maybe enamored by coming to "america the beautiful"...but i truly don't think this notion to give up everything truly applies in our decade ...back in the 70's /80's ..yes...but she is not extremely poor nor is she unhappy over there .....not to be a pompous , blind dIVck.." SHe's Comin Over Here for ME !:aktion033
