Surprised that there has been no mention up in here of the fact that a Basic Tactic of Warfare within the Arabic World forever has been to involve civilians.
As Human Shields, Indentured Fighters (forced to fight, on behalf of their conqueror), HQs constructed beneath Hospitals, Schools.
All I know about The Wedding sitchoo is that it was used on "Homeland", basically verbatim to whats discussed here, as a fairly major plot device.
The Way Muslims fight = Civilian casualties are a more likely outcome than vs. other opponents bcuz Muslim Strategy/Beliefs demand that Civilians be killed. Islam says those killed as result of fighting Non-belivers go to Paradise, Non-Muslim (or opposing Tribe) lives lost are lesser beings, along the lines of Pigs so they don't matter.