Do a surprise weekend visit, rent a brand new Lincoln or other luxury vehicle, get some roses for her, take her to dinner, check whats going on locally, concerts etc(check with public relations, (its what I do), for VIP treatment), make her feel extra special. You can't lose. I love Maryland, Redskins/Orioles/Phillies.
Journeyman, never believe anything a woman says the first time she says it, and never believe anything she says over the phone or a frickin IM -- hell, you can't even get tone of voice over IM.
If you're serious about her, and I mean this -- take stock of her, not in the context of it being *in peril*, but just what values she represents to you in your life and what needs of yours she really can fulfill -- if you want it, get in the damned car and go, knock on the door, and tell her so. And if she rejects you, get back in the car, drive back to Maryland, and get to work on getting over it. Life's too short.
I let my 'only one' drag it out for years, and she ended up married with a kid to one of my best friends. I wouldn't have traded our short time together for anything in the world, but I would have never been able to let go if I had not made an honest attempt to get her back, and been rejected face-to-face.
Compare what you have to gain vs. the cost of gas and time, and I'm sure you'll agree that it's a pretty low-juice bet. Go for it man.
Phaedrus
If you're serious about her, and I mean this -- take stock of her, not in the context of it being *in peril*, but just what values she represents to you in your life and what needs of yours she really can fulfill -- if you want it, get in the damned car and go, knock on the door, and tell her so. And if she rejects you, get back in the car, drive back to Maryland, and get to work on getting over it. Life's too short.
I let my 'only one' drag it out for years, and she ended up married with a kid to one of my best friends. I wouldn't have traded our short time together for anything in the world, but I would have never been able to let go if I had not made an honest attempt to get her back, and been rejected face-to-face.
Compare what you have to gain vs. the cost of gas and time, and I'm sure you'll agree that it's a pretty low-juice bet. Go for it man.
Phaedrus
Journeyman- Just click on one of the umpteen meeting people or dating sites and check them out. They are gold mines. Have some cheap, meaningless sex and then meet some more different women. Point and click and then meet em and bang em. You'll feel much better.
A good MILF meeting spot lately has been church. In the last 2 weeks, I have been to 3 different churches and gone out on 2 dates and "hit it" with the hottie from the non- denominational church. Go on a Saturday night. If they had something better to do, do you think they'd be at church?
A good MILF meeting spot lately has been church. In the last 2 weeks, I have been to 3 different churches and gone out on 2 dates and "hit it" with the hottie from the non- denominational church. Go on a Saturday night. If they had something better to do, do you think they'd be at church?
Guys, Thank God my parlay is walking home tonite!
My just for the hell of it 4 figure parlay has made this a great night instead of a devastating one.
Thank you guys...some real detailed insight...Phaedrus I may have to keep you around man, your a cool poster always having some different outlook at things...
I will keep everyone posted, but as far as I can tell its done, I`m not driving to Tennessee...I think I can atleast get her to talk to me again...My God women are nuts
I`m still me , thats not all bad and my parlay came in
Thank you guys...some real detailed insight...Phaedrus I may have to keep you around man, your a cool poster always having some different outlook at things...
I will keep everyone posted, but as far as I can tell its done, I`m not driving to Tennessee...I think I can atleast get her to talk to me again...My God women are nuts
I`m still me , thats not all bad and my parlay came in
5hottie [11:15 PM]: hey really i wanted all this to work out but yesterdays conversation was very intense...im sure you no that..and i dont want to argue even if we are so far apart!
SON821 [11:16 PM]: yeah it was intense but to say i m not worth the trouble now is not fair ...
Bran25hottie [11:17 PM]: i never said that and now youre putting words in my mouth
SON821 [11:17 PM]: i took your word meaning
authentic INSTANT MESSAGES.....why is she still
talking to me?
PART OF THE SCREEN NAME WAS BLOCKED OUT ON BOTH OUR NAMES.....
SON821 [11:16 PM]: yeah it was intense but to say i m not worth the trouble now is not fair ...
Bran25hottie [11:17 PM]: i never said that and now youre putting words in my mouth
SON821 [11:17 PM]: i took your word meaning
authentic INSTANT MESSAGES.....why is she still
talking to me?
PART OF THE SCREEN NAME WAS BLOCKED OUT ON BOTH OUR NAMES.....
OMG...it won`t end now....I have to post this, I told her fine I give up....
This is her last IM to me....Now I think I`m just glad to get out......ROTF
5hottie [12:15 AM]: no i did like u
Auto response from DSON821 [12:15 AM]: Going to bed....leave a message as I am asleep : )
5hottie [12:16 AM]: yea right your not esleep
ottie [12:16 AM]: is this how you deal w/problems?
hottie [12:16 AM]: just run away?
hottie [12:17 AM]: well im going to bed to
Well maybe she`s just tring to stick it to me, women are crazy..
This is her last IM to me....Now I think I`m just glad to get out......ROTF
5hottie [12:15 AM]: no i did like u
Auto response from DSON821 [12:15 AM]: Going to bed....leave a message as I am asleep : )
5hottie [12:16 AM]: yea right your not esleep
ottie [12:16 AM]: is this how you deal w/problems?
hottie [12:16 AM]: just run away?
hottie [12:17 AM]: well im going to bed to
Well maybe she`s just tring to stick it to me, women are crazy..
Let me sweeten the romantic pot for ya buddy ... if you make that trip, and she doesn't reject you, that night you will have what to your dying day you remember as some of the all-time best sex you have ever had.
Think about it: little fights, stress of a long-distance relationship, she did after all come to see you and things got freaky (the bad way) ... and because you were afraid of losing it all, you drove hours and hours just to see her face to face, to tell her you wanted to give it another chance ...
Come on man, that will be some insane ninja nookie. Hell, that might be worth the drive in and of itself; even if you don't want anything you can just grudge-fvck her and go back to Maryland smiling.
Or, in the secret code language:
JMAN STOP
2 TN &
DAT MAMA DEN
AND SHE GO
&
&
BUT U GO
DEN
BACK 2 MD &
U MEAT TINKIN BOUT THAT SWEET SWEET
IN TN BROTHER ROCKON
Or, the whole romantic thing. Honest to God man, I just don't see how you can lose out here.
Phaedrus
Think about it: little fights, stress of a long-distance relationship, she did after all come to see you and things got freaky (the bad way) ... and because you were afraid of losing it all, you drove hours and hours just to see her face to face, to tell her you wanted to give it another chance ...
Come on man, that will be some insane ninja nookie. Hell, that might be worth the drive in and of itself; even if you don't want anything you can just grudge-fvck her and go back to Maryland smiling.
Or, in the secret code language:
JMAN STOP
Or, the whole romantic thing. Honest to God man, I just don't see how you can lose out here.
Phaedrus
Journeyman,
Just buy her the piece of jewelry that Phaedrus is selling (see ad under her forum name).
It's only 17k. Isn't your love worth that?
No?
Ok..then send her some flowers, but something trendy - NOT ROSES. Roses are for old women. Send her something cool -- a good florist will know what to do. Send a note, but don't make it sappy. Short & sweet. She'll come crawling back.
Just buy her the piece of jewelry that Phaedrus is selling (see ad under her forum name).
It's only 17k. Isn't your love worth that?
No?
Ok..then send her some flowers, but something trendy - NOT ROSES. Roses are for old women. Send her something cool -- a good florist will know what to do. Send a note, but don't make it sappy. Short & sweet. She'll come crawling back.
Phaedrus.....you`re a riot my friend
Atleast I hit my "fu(k the bitch parlay" and I`m not sure if she`s still jerking my chain or what..I may just not be available on the computer or the telephone the next few days..Its my last card, oh hell who am I kidding...I don`t know WTF to do
Thanks for the laugh FadeMeister
Atleast I hit my "fu(k the bitch parlay" and I`m not sure if she`s still jerking my chain or what..I may just not be available on the computer or the telephone the next few days..Its my last card, oh hell who am I kidding...I don`t know WTF to do
Thanks for the laugh FadeMeister
PHAEDRS,,,,
Youa re a FUNNY MUTHER FU****!!!!
hahahah,llhahahallhahahah
Dude,,,
JOURNEY<,, you need to listen to this Cat,,,, hes got it going on!! haha,,,
you could Try the RAMBO approach,,,
and Just say NO WERE NOT Broken up! Were NOT!!
and thats it,,, and Im coming DOWN there to SET THINGS STRAIGHT!! if she Sees you and doesnt Call the Cops,,, you got a shot,,, so Dont FU* it UP again!!
Tater
Youa re a FUNNY MUTHER FU****!!!!
hahahah,llhahahallhahahah
Dude,,,
JOURNEY<,, you need to listen to this Cat,,,, hes got it going on!! haha,,,
you could Try the RAMBO approach,,,
and Just say NO WERE NOT Broken up! Were NOT!!
and thats it,,, and Im coming DOWN there to SET THINGS STRAIGHT!! if she Sees you and doesnt Call the Cops,,, you got a shot,,, so Dont FU* it UP again!!
Tater
Jman, you still okay?
Man cuts off penis, eats it
July 13, 2003
A MALAYSIAN man sliced off his own penis, then fried and ate it after taking hallucinatory pills that caused him to hear voices urging him to mutilate himself, police said today.
The 34-year-old man claimed he only realised what he had done when he saw blood oozing from his crotch, said a police spokesman in the town of Sitiawan, 300km north of Kuala Lumpur.
The man had taken hallucinatory pills before sleeping on Friday and awoke hearing voices telling him to chop off his penis and devour it, the spokesman said on customary condition of anonymity.
He was hospitalised in stable condition, the national news agency Bernama reported.
The man had recently been released from a drug rehabilitation centre, Bernama said.
Man cuts off penis, eats it
July 13, 2003
A MALAYSIAN man sliced off his own penis, then fried and ate it after taking hallucinatory pills that caused him to hear voices urging him to mutilate himself, police said today.
The 34-year-old man claimed he only realised what he had done when he saw blood oozing from his crotch, said a police spokesman in the town of Sitiawan, 300km north of Kuala Lumpur.
The man had taken hallucinatory pills before sleeping on Friday and awoke hearing voices telling him to chop off his penis and devour it, the spokesman said on customary condition of anonymity.
He was hospitalised in stable condition, the national news agency Bernama reported.
The man had recently been released from a drug rehabilitation centre, Bernama said.
