great fvcking post key.
it's really funny cause one of the first girlfriends i ve ever had back when i was 19 or so, after about the first couple of weeks into our fling, which was pretty much a fvck and coffee affair no more no less, and while we are lying in bed and i am like watching the news and sipping some rum and having a fag after sex, she turns around and goes, well you know that other guy i was going around with, i go, yeah that dickhead, yeah, she says, well we used to do it that way and the other way, well, i reply in all my naivete we tried a few positions ourselves right?, well she says, how can i say it, go i ahead i go, well, you never take me up the ass, do you? To which i said, well, you ve never fvcking asked me to, and went on smoking and sipping my drink in a perplexed state of mind.
For me going for the back alley is sometimes a welcome change, but you know if the proper thing dont work nicely then trying other stuff wont liven things up much.