I grew up having to go to my great grandparents and grandparents generation of formal Christmas Dinners and Ham was always the meat with maybe roast beef. Turkey was reserved for Thanksgiving. Only after that generation of folks passed on did we as a family adopt Homemade Spaghetti as the dinner food for our Christmas Meal. After had I had my gallbladder removed, I only eat a small portion regardless if it were still ham as in the old days or spaghetti in these modern times. I have tried to only eat to live and not live to eat as the old adage goes. I heard a man state the other night that the best advice his mom ever gave him was "Not to dig his grave with his teeth".