Wow, what you say describes me to a tee - does that mean we will never be in a real relationship and and actually be happy? I've been in a relatiionships but I was always faking and knew we had no true future
I don't know, Seymour. I'm definitely fucked, but you appear to be quite a bit younger,
so there may still be hope for you. After being married for over a decade the single
life in the years that have followed seems much more enjoyable. Relationships mean
compromise, sacrifice, and not always getting your own way, so it is a question of
deciding how much you are willing to do so, and of finding the right person to fit your
qualifications. For someone like me whose philosophy is, my way or the highway, it
is going to be difficult to attract any female. OTOH Veijo appears to have a good
thing going in the LOS, with a sweet submissive Thai partner who lets him spend
time on the internet, go to bars with his friends and "golfing" {wink, wink}. How is it
he knows every TG in Pattaya by number ;
Hundreds of other farang have found bliss with a woman of Siam. And as some old
thai hands told me, 90% of foreigners there will change from their single whoring
ways to having a GF/partner later in life. Maybe they just needed to sow their wild
oats or get in the sack with a bunch of different women before settling down? Of
course that doesn't mean they can't get a little action on the side.
A few Thai ladies i met who were walking the streets around the famous NEP in
Bangkok have joked about marrying me. I told them i am a nit noy {small} butterfly
and like some variety. They replied that that would be no problem, and they would do
the same thing! So it would be ok to marry them. Somehow i think that they were not
entirely not serious about that. And my feeling is this type of relationship is more
common and acceptable there than in the West.