I'm not actually good at math - so I'd take what I've typed with a grain of salt, it just makes the most sense to me that the gender of the first child is irrelevent to the question - and thus you have a simple set, either {B} or {G}. I can't see how there is a difference between the question the father asks and the question "I have one child, what is the probability it's a girl?"
But like I said, grain of salt.
celtic, you got it right, it would be 2/3 IF the question asked what are the odds the boy is the oldest....
But ORDER was never requested in the question: therefore the equation he is using is wrong. it is 50%