For the love of god joey please re-read this.....
Ok where you are watching the selected youtube video. On the left hand side they'll be a box called about the video where it has a description of the video, meta tags for search purposes, a URL link and under that there is an embed line of code. Copy and paste that entire line of code and just paste it into the post.
I don't want your 10,000th post to be something like this
http://www.youtube.com/v/3K11gPYxS7k">http://www.youtube.com/v/3K11gPYxS7k" type="application/x-shockwave-flash" wmode="transparent" width="425" height="350">