You know what costs a lot of money... DATING.

[C-Gold]

You know what costs a lot of money... DATING.

It gives all of us guys something to bitch about regardless of Libertarian, Democrat, Republican, Anarcho-Capitalist, Socialist.

The costs
Birthday presents
Christmas Presents
Random acts of kindness presents
Valentines day
Dinners
Drinks
Movies
Shows
Ball games
Ballets / Theaters
The Beach ( yes it costs money in the socialist state of NJ)
transportation
picking up the tab for trips
Hotels
food
Flowers

Unless you are taking the lady out to the Olive Garden, and unless you make her pay ( I'm old fashioned), dating costs money. What do you get in return? You better be getting good blow jobs, sex whenever you want it, whatever else tickles your fancy.

My old boss used to be friends with a "playa" who would always break up with his girls around the holidays to save money on gifts.

My friend's boss is filthy fucking rich and dating 7 girls right now. He say's he's the horniest guy he knows and they will be going to some clients and he'll just STOP.... " Look at that fucking girl".

Is it better to just pick up free pussy at the bar or is dating even financially worth it?

 

[kingbill]

You're doin wrong if it's costing you a lot...

No matter how much you spend you can't change a woman's opinion of you for the positive.

Explain a woman's soul to her in a way she's never understood before and it won't cost you a dime.

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A friend of mine, whenever he was on a first date he would pull the same stunt. Go for a nice dinner with the girl, reach for his wallet and its not in his pants.
"Oh damn, I must have left my wallet in my car, take care of this and I'll get you back when we're outside."

They'd go to the car and sure enough "Oh damn, I must have left my wallet at home, come back to mine and I'l take care of it"

He said if the girl was coming back he'd sleep with her and rarely would have to pay for dinner. If she didn't come back he got a free dinner.
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When I was single I would go out with a lot of women, it was never about the money. I'm going out for dinner anyways, so why not have a beautiful women join you.

 

[geeze]

Hey, it's cheaper than marriage.

 

[sumday]

Well if you are dating long term the chic should be paying some of the time if not half.

 

[C-Gold]

Kingbill-

Free loading like that is a pretty snake thing to do.

 

[roadreeler57]

It's cheaper than divorce & child support

 

[kingbill]

Kingbill-

Free loading like that is a pretty snake thing to do.

You were complaining how expensive dating was so I gave you an alternative. It will save you money, and really why should the man be paying? Isn't your time just as valuable?

Most of my dates were Coffee and conversation, it's all about spending time with the woman, it doesn't matter what the bill at the end says.

If I paid for a date it was because I wanted to, not out of expectation from the woman or expectation from myself that if I bought dinner I would get some. If I'm expected to pay for a womans time, I might as well pay for a professionals time.

 

[THawk+]

depends on your age to.... Alot of women out there are not worth the time and or effort... Whether it be a bad marriage to some jerk an they are broken and have issues you dont want to deal with. add the kids in and forget it..

Then you have the immature ones....

Pretty much if you do not find a good one when you are younger and are lucky enough to hold on to her then you are one of the lucky ones...

As you get older the good ones who are not messed up are few and far between if you can even find one...

 

[C-Gold]

You were complaining how expensive dating was so I gave you an alternative. It will save you money, .

Buying $4.00 per gallon gasoline sucks too, but that doesn't mean you should try and steal it.

I had a guy that was "used" for a dinner date so he kept calling her and calling her and left voice mails. He wanted his 54.73 ( or some exact amount) back from her portion of the dinner. He went after her like a repo man, and collected at her work. He's a sales guy ( sales guys are crazy) and he made her feel bad.

I think she worked some lower job like bank teller or something and he called her up and told her to just leave the money where he could grab it in one of those windows or such and she didn't have to talk to him or face him or anything.

He rolls up and collects to stick it to the bitch.^^

 

[C-Gold]

Most of my dates were Coffee and conversation

Most of the hot classy girls want a guy with financial means, if given the choice they'd rather do more than coffee or ice cream.

Yeah yeah maybe you could try and find some girl who looks past that blah blah blah, but MOST of the hot ones... not average, not ugly... will get their good looking rich guy.

Hot girls don't want poor guys.

 

[$tinky]

You're doin wrong if it's costing you a lot...

No matter how much you spend you can't change a woman's opinion of you for the positive.

Explain a woman's soul to her in a way she's never understood before and it won't cost you a dime.

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A friend of mine, whenever he was on a first date he would pull the same stunt. Go for a nice dinner with the girl, reach for his wallet and its not in his pants.
"Oh damn, I must have left my wallet in my car, take care of this and I'll get you back when we're outside."

They'd go to the car and sure enough "Oh damn, I must have left my wallet at home, come back to mine and I'l take care of it"

He said if the girl was coming back he'd sleep with her and rarely would have to pay for dinner. If she didn't come back he got a free dinner.
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When I was single I would go out with a lot of women, it was never about the money. I'm going out for dinner anyways, so why not have a beautiful women join you.

Your friend is a douche bag.

 

[quantumleap]

Most of the hot classy girls want a guy with financial means, if given the choice they'd rather do more than coffee or ice cream.

Yeah yeah maybe you could try and find some girl who looks past that blah blah blah, but MOST of the hot ones... not average, not ugly... will get their good looking rich guy.

Hot girls don't want poor guys.

C-G, this is why I date Asian women. I'm not talking about Asian women that were born here but the ones that were born across the pond.

When I take one of them out she is appreciative that spend so much money on here. A lot of times they find jobs over here that don't pay much.

Her idea of a good date is to cook for me. You see they are raised to take care of their man and their kids while the man is out making money. From what I hear Latin women are like this too.

 

[barman]

QL, I'm pretty sure based on CG's posting history, the idea of dating a minority-race women gives him the oogies.

 

[hosnatcher]

Serial Dating is quite expensive. However you can cut some corners by having a steady girlfriend. Here are some money saving tips.


1) Eat before you visit your girlfriend. That saves you the cost of two meals because a girl will rarely want to look like a pig and eat by themselves in public.

2) Learn how to cook. Cooking a kick ass meal for your lady can be a turn-on. Plus you can save money in the movie department too by staying in and watching a DVD after a good cooked meal.

3) Lie and say you don't eat sushi/seafood or are allergic to it. This can limit your girls options on dinner dates.

4) Take up hobbies such as sports, SciFi, Poker etc... This allows you to get out of spending quality money spending time with her girl if you are self-involved.

5) Give up drinking wine for beer (I prefer Dos Equis). Wine drinking can get pretty expensive that just adds the cost on dates. If she loves wine then you are only into a glass or two instead of whole bottle.

 

[Gold-star]

Hey, it's cheaper than marriage.

Brilliant quote :lol:

 

[MinnesotaEconMajor]

Hey, it's cheaper than marriage.

And porn is cheaper than dating. :toast:

 

[mr21]

just get a $40 handjob at a massage parlor instead when you feel like going on a date

 

[kingbill]

Most of the hot classy girls want a guy with financial means, if given the choice they'd rather do more than coffee or ice cream.

Yeah yeah maybe you could try and find some girl who looks past that blah blah blah, but MOST of the hot ones... not average, not ugly... will get their good looking rich guy.

Hot girls don't want poor guys.

Do you believe the more you spend of a woman, the more she will like you?

Connect with a woman on an emotional level and it won't matter the price of the bill.

But if you are pretty empty and devoid of anything else to offer, I guess you would need to spend dough to compete with other men.

 

[CLefty]

Hey, it's cheaper than marriage.

and WAY WAY cheaper than having children.

 

[C-Gold]

A friend of mine, whenever he was on a first date he would pull the same stunt. Go for a nice dinner with the girl, reach for his wallet and its not in his pants.
"Oh damn, I must have left my wallet in my car, take care of this and I'll get you back when we're outside."

They'd go to the car and sure enough "Oh damn, I must have left my wallet at home, come back to mine and I'l take care of it"

He said if the girl was coming back he'd sleep with her and rarely would have to pay for dinner. If she didn't come back he got a free dinner.
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Are you friends with any rapists too?:>(