this is not my career job im 20, i just work there while im going to school, but where i work word about everything gets around really fast, i already got shot down once and everyone knows so i guess i should follow the dont shit where u eat theory and try not to look desperate? thoughts?
Yep that is the drawback. If you get shot down and the word gets around, the other chicks will automatically reject you because another one already did. Its like a social ranking thing. Those girls wont want to feel inferior to each other- the hot ones especially
So what you want to do is escalate slowly. If you feel resistance stop, pull back and then try again a bit later. Or better yet make sure that the first girl sees you interact with another one(giggling, slight touching and shit). She just might get a bit jealous and wants to steal you from the second girl. Sometimes a girl doesnt know she wants you, till she feels she is about to lose you