I have some experience in your way of thinking, but as you said, I am not qualified, as I don't know you or care to.
The problem is you don't know my "way of thinking" and your posts - including this one - have repeatedly demonstrated that you don't & are wrong in what you have - erroneously - thought was my "way of thinking". Because i don't think what you think i think. Like i said:
Now you are just making stuff up out of your own imagination with no evidence, no quotes of anything i've said to back up your words, and no reasoning or logic to support your claims. You actually speak as if you know me, but it's obvious you don't (after all, how could you) & i know for a fact you are wrong. Which destroys your credibility here.
If you want to know what a stranger thinks, you should ask him questions, instead of making false lying claims.
As for experience in a "way of thinking", i once believed in an eternal hell. That was 4 decades ago. Since then i have believed in universal salvation. And have read many books on the subject, both for and against it. And studied it in great detail, as well as having had many online debates with anti-universalist annihilationists & infernalists. So, believe me, i know what i am talking about on this subject. I know it extremely well. You, OTOH, nah.
I tried to accept your and my friends' "theology". I could never convince myself that all would be saved and that the easy way an "OK" way.
Easy way? What's easy? There's only ever been only one Way & that's Jesus Christ (John 14:6; 1 Tim.2:4-6).
The hard way would be rejecting Him in this life & going to "hell" postmortem.
Not accepting other people's ideas out of hand simply because they are not qualified professionals allows you to avoid virtually all ideas you don't like. You should really look at what I said and what others have said instead of covering your ears (or eyes as the case may be) and running off screaming "unqualified...unqualified".
Like i said i've studied the topic quite thoroughly. Perhaps more than anyone ever has. And my posts here are evidence in support of that. So your remarks here are quite "out to lunch".