Just for the record, Hot Passionate Sex has nothing to do with wining and dining, she wants to get fucked like you mean it. Make her feel sexy and like Meganutsack said dont blow your nut in the first five. Panda was right about the desire shit, but doesnt sound like your wife wants to be seduced, sounds like she wants to be sucked and fucked. Just to reiterate, do it like you mean it.
The wining and dining gives her an opportunity to get sexified, and gives him an opportunity to pay tons of attention to her, tell her how great she looks, engage her in conversation, etc. I don't know his wife so can't speak for her, but if it were me making that request, it means I want to feel like you can't keep your hands off me, you know? But it isn't as simple as just making a grab for the crotch. 'N shit.
