... What was your experience like in East Germany?
Well, it was by no means the hell it was always portrayed as in the West.
Yes, you couldn't travel all over the world, you had a lot less luxury goods and the Party was always there, but in return for that you always had a feeling of security. You never had to be afraid of the future, you'd never be unemployed or be unable to pay your rent, food was cheap and all goods you really needed were always there, there was little crime and people were a lot less lonely than they often are in capitalist countries with their "me first"-mentality. And the pressure of the party was not that big. Of course, continuous open criticism of the system got you into trouble but it was not that one wrong joke would get you into prison or such, these are horror stories.
I'm not saying I want to go back to socialism, partly because I don't know if, after twenty years of a western style of living I could adapt again to the socialist standards but mostly because I believe that socialism won't work until people have changed so that most of them work decently even without any pressure and that unchecked leaders still try to do the best for the people instead of securing and abusing their power.
But the opinion that most Westerners have of life in socialist countries is simply wrong. It wasn't that bad. It certainly also was not the workers' paradise our propaganda claimed it to be but there is a reason why many middle-aged East Germans, unemployed, living on welfare and without any personal future, have fond memories about the GDR, and I daresay that there were more smiles in Russia before Gorbatchev than now.
You always hear about people wanting to get out of the GDR into the FRG, but when in 1989 masses of East Germans were allowed to go there many of those quickly came back, disillusioned, because they realised that when you find no work then life in the West is by no means as great as it looks on television.