I would choose the one where the sex is the best. Money will come and go, I live my life by saying "Its just money, we make it everyday". But if the sex is not good in your relationship, chances are it won't last. Someone, you or her or both will look to fill that void elsewhere.
Let me break this down for you.......
LOVE---the divorce rate in this country is ridiculous. Most people dont make it. The people that do go through a lot. A very wise marriage counseler once said to me, if you are happy in your relationship 60% of the time, its a great marriage. So chances are even if you and your significant other love each other tremendously, you wont make it. It takes a hell of a lot more than love to make a relationship work. It takes constant communication, respect, honesty, just to name a few for example. It takes how you work through things in the bad times. It takes working through your issues. Everyone has them and it stems from the ages of 0-5 years. It stems from your family of origin. Bottom line it takes A LOT of HARD WORK.
SEX---While this is important to men, its just not as important to women. Not saying it isnt important, just definitely not as important. If you base your relationship on sex, lust, it will be doomed. Believe it or not most of the time, this stuff fades away slowly.
Actually I would probably choose the girl with money. If things are close to being equal in other areas, money is the way to go. Why not secure your life and future? Especially when the odds are against success anyway?
LOVE---the divorce rate in this country is ridiculous. Most people dont make it. The people that do go through a lot. A very wise marriage counseler once said to me, if you are happy in your relationship 60% of the time, its a great marriage. So chances are even if you and your significant other love each other tremendously, you wont make it. It takes a hell of a lot more than love to make a relationship work. It takes constant communication, respect, honesty, just to name a few for example. It takes how you work through things in the bad times. It takes working through your issues. Everyone has them and it stems from the ages of 0-5 years. It stems from your family of origin. Bottom line it takes A LOT of HARD WORK.
SEX---While this is important to men, its just not as important to women. Not saying it isnt important, just definitely not as important. If you base your relationship on sex, lust, it will be doomed. Believe it or not most of the time, this stuff fades away slowly.
Actually I would probably choose the girl with money. If things are close to being equal in other areas, money is the way to go. Why not secure your life and future? Especially when the odds are against success anyway?
Damn it, I realized tonight that I can't be with the money girl...I would rather pay rent and drive a Co-op auto than have to deal with that every night.
I was at her waterfront condo tonight eating Sushi and I said to her, I had a great day betting hit 6 of 7. She's like, "is this becoming a problem?"
"Um you don't get it, I went 6 for 7 that's f'n Great!"
"I don't know if I like you doing this..."
"Humph"
I sat through dinner and "The Devil wears Prada"
I left to go home, I called the other woman on the way and told her about my day
"That's Great!!! Let's celebrate tomorrow, I'll order Chinese and we'll watch the BCS game"
Damn a girl that can appreciate a good day betting and be able to sit through and enjoy the College Championship game...Easy Choice...
I was at her waterfront condo tonight eating Sushi and I said to her, I had a great day betting hit 6 of 7. She's like, "is this becoming a problem?"
"Um you don't get it, I went 6 for 7 that's f'n Great!"
"I don't know if I like you doing this..."
"Humph"
I sat through dinner and "The Devil wears Prada"
I left to go home, I called the other woman on the way and told her about my day
"That's Great!!! Let's celebrate tomorrow, I'll order Chinese and we'll watch the BCS game"
Damn a girl that can appreciate a good day betting and be able to sit through and enjoy the College Championship game...Easy Choice...
I'd go with the money, certainly.
Love is "biochemically no different" than eating large quanities of chocolate. The vast majority of relationships turn sour, and divorce proceedings tend to get ugly when strong emotions are at stake (its a fine line between love and hate, and who needs the hassle?).
The sex factor is important, for a while. But with years of being together, there are only so many things a couple can do in the bedroom and boredom is sure to follow. Besides, as you get older and life becomes more complicated, sex definitely depreciates swiftly.
Money is the way to go, just make sure there's isn't a prenup and that you don't accidently procreate together. Its bad news when you get innocents involved in your own adult problems.
Love is "biochemically no different" than eating large quanities of chocolate. The vast majority of relationships turn sour, and divorce proceedings tend to get ugly when strong emotions are at stake (its a fine line between love and hate, and who needs the hassle?).
The sex factor is important, for a while. But with years of being together, there are only so many things a couple can do in the bedroom and boredom is sure to follow. Besides, as you get older and life becomes more complicated, sex definitely depreciates swiftly.
Money is the way to go, just make sure there's isn't a prenup and that you don't accidently procreate together. Its bad news when you get innocents involved in your own adult problems.
<TABLE class=tborder cellSpacing=1 cellPadding=6 width="100%" align=center border=0><TBODY><TR><TD class=thead colSpan=2>01-08-2007 03:49 AM</TD></TR><TR title="Post 3660673" vAlign=top><TD class=alt1 align=middle width=125>kingbill</TD><TD class=alt2>Damn it, I realized tonight that I can't be with the money girl...I would rather pay rent and drive a Co-op auto than have to deal with that every night.
I was at her waterfront condo tonight eating Sushi and I said to her, I had a great day betting hit 6 of 7. She's like, "is this becoming a problem?"
"Um you don't get it, I went 6 for 7 that's f'n Great!"
"I don't know if I like you doing this..."
"Humph"
I sat through dinner and "The Devil wears Prada"
I left to go home, I called the other woman on the way and told her about my day
"That's Great!!! Let's celebrate tomorrow, I'll order Chinese and we'll watch the BCS game"
Damn a girl that can appreciate a good day betting and be able to sit through and enjoy the College Championship game...Easy Choice...</TD></TR></TBODY></TABLE>
Fuck that!!! Think you found yourself a keeper with LOVE.
I was at her waterfront condo tonight eating Sushi and I said to her, I had a great day betting hit 6 of 7. She's like, "is this becoming a problem?"
"Um you don't get it, I went 6 for 7 that's f'n Great!"
"I don't know if I like you doing this..."
"Humph"
I sat through dinner and "The Devil wears Prada"
I left to go home, I called the other woman on the way and told her about my day
"That's Great!!! Let's celebrate tomorrow, I'll order Chinese and we'll watch the BCS game"
Damn a girl that can appreciate a good day betting and be able to sit through and enjoy the College Championship game...Easy Choice...</TD></TR></TBODY></TABLE>
Fuck that!!! Think you found yourself a keeper with LOVE.
