You guys are all nuts. I never would in a million years involve any family member in the day to day of my gambling. Occasionally might let them know I have action on a game we are watching, but nothing more. You have to treat it all like a business or else just as you suspect they will want to spend it. If they can't accept this is your business then you are with the wrong woman. I can't believe you buy her a gift and say anything about gambling wins. What happens when you have a bad year? If you aren't careful, that leads to her or family members calling GA telling them you are blowing family money on betting.
No no no. Don't go down that road. The 10k you won is just part of a long term business and nothing more.
No no no. Don't go down that road. The 10k you won is just part of a long term business and nothing more.