you obviously have no life, as a psy major, and as someone with good intentions, i feel for you kodiak, but, as you are a mere persona on the web, i can't do anything but tell you to get one, a life that is, go out, the sun shines more often than not, it's summer girls are out walking in their summer clothes, plenty of coffee shops, bars, mals, no reason or use to get obsessive on an internet persona, trust me on this advice, and you can thank me later.