I HAVE BEEN IN THIS SAME SITUATION...AND OYU HEAR THE ADVICE OF SAYING TO JUST WALK AWAY...AND THAT IS DAMN HARD TO DO , BUT I HAD A GIRL ONCE MEET SOME NUT OFF THE INTERNET WHO WAS INTO THE GOTHIC THING AND SHE THOUGHT THAT WAS JUST THE GREATEST...AND LONG STORY SHORT...I WAS AT HER PLACE ONE NIGHT AND SHE HAD PACKED HER STUFF TO GO AWAY WITH HIM AND SOME OF HIS FRIENDS FOR THE WEEKEND AND I SAID YOU CAN HAVE EM...AND WALKED OUT OF THAT APARTMENT...NEVER LOOKED BACK..IT HURT FOR ALL OF 10 MINUTES BUT I JUST KEPT DRIVING AND DRIVING AND THE FARTHER I GOT AWAY THE BETTER I FELT AND I AM SO GLAD I DID THAT................NO WOMAN IS WORTH THAT BULLLLLLLLLL SHIT....SEEMS SHE IS ATTRACTED TO THIS GUY BECAUSE HE IS A "BIKER" AND THAT IS THE "THING" TO BE THESE DAYS FOR SOME REASON....ANYWAY.......YOU MUST RUN RUN RUN AND NEVER LOOK BACK, IT IS HARD TO DO BUT YOU GOTTA TRUST ALL OF US...IT IS THE RIGHT THING TO DO AND YOU WILL BE GLAD YOU DID I SWEAR!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!:thumbsup2: