No,I have none besides coworkers, classmates on Facebook that I’m friendly with. All my close friends are guys. I tried the girls as friends route when I was divorced and all I could think of was when are we fucking, I prefer to have men only as friends besides my wife who is my best friend and she fucks me regularly
When I lived in vegas last year for 6 months I had a group I ran around with. 4-5 girls, one was petty close we hung out a lot. I never wanted to have sex with them.
The one drunk dialed me one night asking if I was horny. Haha another expressed she had a interest but I wasn't interested. The others who knows.
But I don't cross that boundary. I was fine being friends, interestinf to get a wide range of chick opinions. None was super annoying but 1.
The one drunk dialed me one night asking if I was horny. Haha another expressed she had a interest but I wasn't interested. The others who knows.
But I don't cross that boundary. I was fine being friends, interestinf to get a wide range of chick opinions. None was super annoying but 1.
It's really no problem either way for a woman or man to have a friend of the opposite sex. You just have that level of relationship without any sexual expectations not that difficult e en if you want it be a sexual relationship in your mind, it may become sexual some day. I've had those kind of relationships many times like living with a female roommate that was very hot and I certainly wanted all of her even to the level of potential wife but I knew that wasn't in the cards . Sometimes you just have to accept things as they are. I have a close friend like that now she's at least 8-10 years older than me but attractive . she's a widow and available , also has a lot of money. She's just a friend through but a good one that I associate with frequently, not likely to ever get to be sexual and I'm not trying to go there. The roommate in Colorado Springs was a different story, I wanted her badly. It really is not impossible to simply have a close female friend with out making it sexual, I've done it many times
You can take it to another level with a gay friend and be a queer or making it sexual, just a gay friend.not mu ch difference between a male or female or even a homosexual friend, just so long as they are friends and not sex partners. I think it may be harder for a woman to have a close guy friend. I can handle it.
You can take it to another level with a gay friend and be a queer or making it sexual, just a gay friend.not mu ch difference between a male or female or even a homosexual friend, just so long as they are friends and not sex partners. I think it may be harder for a woman to have a close guy friend. I can handle it.
This lady named Elaine works as a taxi driver. It's a crap job that pays minimum wage, she does it for something to do not because she needs the income. She has plenty of money her husband left her well off .she often will give money to people a d not charge for a ride if someone is needy. A really kind lady, she does some amazing things . Now helping to care for a co-worker that has cancer and is pretty much dieing slowly. She's right there to help, will help anybody out, about the kindest lady I've ever known. Driving the cab is like a hobby she's not the type to just stay home and watch TV. I have great respect for her. It's nice to do things like go out to dinner with her. I can't see ever getting sexual with her, she's older around the age of my first wife, so not like totally our of question, just not the way it is
1. I have to trust the girl I am with
2. I have to be willing to dump her immediately if she cheats on me. No wishy washy. I make it clear. You don't get to fuck that up. If you do, it is over.
3. I am going to have a problem with all of her male friends to some extent because even though I trust her, I won't trust that they don't have other intentions.
I will say this ... I have had friends with wives who were smoking hot but I never, ever thought of them sexually in any serious way. Even after one of them got divorced, I just couldn't look at that girl without thinking of her as the girl of my buddy and there was just zero desire for that person, even though she was good looking, generally a good person, responsible, hard working etc. etc. ... she was a friend and nothing more and nothing less, though without her being with my buddy anymore, she was just pretty much removed from my life. I find it super easy to draw that line in my mind, but seem to have a harder time with the wife of someone I don't know. But the point is .. I think you CAN make that distinction if you train yourself and you don't have to go gay to do it.
But bottom line … trust the girl you are with or she isn't worth being with and if she messes it up, be perfectly fine with letting the relationship go. No second chances on that one.
I would probably have a hard time with the guy friend person though, knowing what is most likely on his mind.
2. I have to be willing to dump her immediately if she cheats on me. No wishy washy. I make it clear. You don't get to fuck that up. If you do, it is over.
3. I am going to have a problem with all of her male friends to some extent because even though I trust her, I won't trust that they don't have other intentions.
I will say this ... I have had friends with wives who were smoking hot but I never, ever thought of them sexually in any serious way. Even after one of them got divorced, I just couldn't look at that girl without thinking of her as the girl of my buddy and there was just zero desire for that person, even though she was good looking, generally a good person, responsible, hard working etc. etc. ... she was a friend and nothing more and nothing less, though without her being with my buddy anymore, she was just pretty much removed from my life. I find it super easy to draw that line in my mind, but seem to have a harder time with the wife of someone I don't know. But the point is .. I think you CAN make that distinction if you train yourself and you don't have to go gay to do it.
But bottom line … trust the girl you are with or she isn't worth being with and if she messes it up, be perfectly fine with letting the relationship go. No second chances on that one.
I would probably have a hard time with the guy friend person though, knowing what is most likely on his mind.
I would be uncomfortable if my wife had some sort of a male friend unless it was like her son-in-law which is different. I somehow think it would okay for me to tight with Elaine if still married but you can't expect a wife to accept that it's not fair, just like her having some guy friend that isn't like a relative. Texting Elaine and almost sort of dating her and going to dinners with her is unacceptable behavior when married unless wife is included. It borders on cheating even if no intention of ever becoming a sexual relationship
