Boss Hog,
You seem to be in very similar position as I was/am, so let's hope I can help out since I'm in Woodbridge. My short story first: my fiancée (then-gf) and I bought a double-level 3-bdrm, 2.5 bath condo last summer; my fiancée has a daughter so we have 1 child living here. We are living in the upper section/levels (3rd/4th floors; bigger than 1st/2nd floor because of no 2-car garage in the way on the 1st floor). So the upper floor plan is about 1980 sq ft, lower floor plan has only 1870 sq ft. The 2-car garage is actually 1 car for each owner (upper and lower) but with room in the driveway to park the 2nd car outside the garage door.
This community started in 2005, and has seen dramatic price drops (original upper plan was for $359K; original lower plan was for $349K). Last spring (2007), they dropped to $319K for upper; $299 for lower. I got it for $319K but I had a 5% discount from builder due to my previous condo was a failed condo conversion (in short, I had to sell previous condo in Leesburg, VA, back to the builder to return back to apartments & sell it to another company). So it was a $16K discount (bought for around $304K).
The builder was smart, building only the necessary buildings to complete the community, not all at once, so they built a few more buildings this past spring for summer. They're now selling the upper for $299K, lower for $279K. So the only equity right now I have is through the 5% downpayment on top of 5% discount I made.
We fully knew we only wanted to live in the condo 3-5 years before buying a SF home. So I had an 5/1 ARM IO loan for this condo (was on 1 income as my fiancée was finishing up her BA degree as she returned back to school to do that). We chose Woodbridge because I work for the Army (as contractor) and this location was great & has lot of value here (as you must know by now if you are going to move here).
Some people in this community are tenants, and I have been nosy about what rents/sales my community has been going this past year... rents are between 1600-1800 month; people in this community who had to sell in this down market had to compete with builder's inventory so they did sell some lower ones for $250's and upper ones for $270's-$280's. Not good for us if we wanted to move within a year or so, which isn't in the plan yet.
We probably will ride it out for a few years, although we have considered more options lately. Due to lack of kids our daughter's age in our particular condo community as well as not impressed with the particular elementary shool as well as having a neighbor below us who have very sharp ears and has complained of noise sometimes, although friendly (we are deaf, which doesn't help matters)--- all of that has made us consider maybe choosing a new townhouse in a new community few miles away as they are available in this weak market in the same price range; heck, some of them are CHEAPER than my condo! SF home prices are still a bit out of our reach right now.
Like many have said, buying is the better choice... one of our neighbors suddenly moved to Calif due to family/new job, and they easily was able to rent their condo out for a year to renters. I would consider this if we can rent this condo out if we can't sell the condo as we do somehow consider buying a townhouse this fall.
* CalvinTy