My girlfriend left me Christmas morning

[ANOTHERDAY]

Everything over the past year has been wonderful, until Christmas morning. I received the call at 10am. I just knew something was not right. I said what's the problem 5 times and then she broke down and told me that she could not be with me anymore, due to her insecurities. She was never well with herself and I did not try to change her because you can't change another. Wisdom passed to me several years ago has made it much much easier for me to deal. The worst part of it all was that I was set-up for it to be on Christmas morning. Yes she got her gifts 2 days before. There is nothing that I would have not done for her. I would NEVER break, only bend. She broke. Life goes on..... I and you will never know what another is thinking. She always said that she would stay no matter what, funny how the feeling goes away. I will never know the real reason and it does not matter. I'm the type that hears nothing, sees nothing, what's up with that! Fu*k them and I never look back. Respect, character, care, and trustworthyness will stay with me till the day I die. Just another experience that I went through and will continue to go through as time passes. Have a safe and Happy New Year

 

[custom2006]

Everything over the past year has been wonderful, until Christmas morning. I received the call at 10am. I just knew something was not right. I said what's the problem 5 times and then she broke down and told me that she could not be with me anymore, due to her insecurities. She was never well with herself and I did not try to change her because you can't change another. Wisdom passed to me several years ago has made it much much easier for me to deal. The worst part of it all was that I was set-up for it to be on Christmas morning. Yes she got her gifts 2 days before. There is nothing that I would have not done for her. I would NEVER break, only bend. She broke. Life goes on..... I and you will never know what another is thinking. She always said that she would stay no matter what, funny how the feeling goes away. I will never know the real reason and it does not matter. I'm the type that hears nothing, sees nothing, what's up with that! Fu*k them and I never look back. Respect, character, care, and trustworthyness will stay with me till the day I die. Just another experience that I went through and will continue to go through as time passes. Have a safe and Happy New Year

You have the right mind set...life goes on & time heals all wounds!
Sometimes when things happen in life...it is a blessing in disguise...maybe you will look back at this and realize it was a one of the best things that ever happened to you,

Good Luck & Happy New Year to you!

 

[tatehill2000]

take a deep breath, its gonna be alright, the real challenge is what are you gonna do when a month from now she starts calling you again apologizing wanting to get back together.

tater

 

[ANOTHERDAY]

You have the right mind set...life goes on & time heals all wounds!
Sometimes when things happen in life...it is a blessing in disguise...maybe you will look back at this and realize it was a one of the best things that ever happened to you,

Good Luck & Happy New Year to you!

Thank you. There is nothing more to the story that I have not told you. I have not slept with her more then a few times in the past weeks, reason, my heart felt something was wrong with her. I was right. Just thankful for what I have and will have as time goes on.

 

[ANOTHERDAY]

take a deep breath, its gonna be alright, the real challenge is what are you gonna do when a month from now she starts calling you again apologizing wanting to get back together.

tater

It would never be the same. Once they leave, I will never believe:nono5:.

 

[bigbet1234]

I'd say slit your wrist

 

[whalewager]

She's with a black feller now probably. They are taking over.

 

[WorldNumberOne]

will you be able to return her gifts for store credit ?

in the end , that is all that really matters.

 

[eman]

I'd say slit your wrist

:machinegu

 

[golfingarkansas]

i hate to say it but it is the truth! You mentioned insecurity with her and 99.9 PERCENT OF THE TIME A WOMEN NVER LEAVES A MAN WITHOUT ANOTHER MAN!!! Way to cut losses.


GA


take maryland today and make some money

 

[DennizdaMenace]

I gave some guy this same advice..

And then I lost a beautiful 22 year old girl who makes most internet models look ugly..NO BS either..I am twice her age but had her because I gave her a home..car..laptop..big screen for her room..stereo..$..GOT HER A JOB..you name it..

It hurt because I could go several radius of miles from my house and not see a prettier..hotter...incredible hair...girl with perfect size 6 feet to match..

I was devasted when she left..I actually was an ass hole and told her to leave,,the second she was out the door the loneliest set in..

WHAT TO DO?..Do something to better yourdself every fucken day..every fucken hour...work and do things to keep you mind from wandering..If you can..get laid often..Sometimes when I felt the heart ache setting in..I would drop and do 20 pushups..or some barbell curls..maske yourself look attractive for yourself and other girls..brush your teeth good..wash your face good..

It was hard..but I kept it up for 2 days..she is back now..sleeping as I type..she loves the long foot massages..and security I give her..we will never be official boy-girl friend because of our age diff..but I accept it and am happy to get some when I can..

If she had not come back..it would have hurt but I and my wallet would have been better off..yadayadayada..

Bottom line..and its extremely tuff..grab your fucken balls and better yourself..and do things for YOU!

 

[DennizdaMenace]

Also get yourself a dick pump..no bullshit..I also dicovered some form of tequila called patron..2 shots of this and you dont give a fuck..xanax is good too..helps you fall asleep man..before your mind wanders:toast:

 

[BEANTOWNJIM]

wilheim what the f-ck is going on here i am trying to make money gambling and some f-cking nut comes into the forum to tell us about his girl leaving him.

wilheim this is a sports forum not ( ask ann landers) tell the f-cking kid to jump off a bridge and let me study my games without this nonsense interupting me.i am here to make money not play love councelor.

hey anotherday call dr. Phil this is a gambling forum not a doctors office tell somebody that gives a f-ck.

wilheim where do we get these guys he must have been sent over here by the shrink to make the rx look bad.sorry boys it wont work wilheim will handle this matter.now we need a new section in the forum (lovers lane) where you can disscuss your sexuel feelings both gay and heterosexuel do something wilheim i am trying to study the games for tonight.

 

[ANOTHERDAY]

i hate to say it but it is the truth! You mentioned insecurity with her and 99.9 PERCENT OF THE TIME A WOMEN NVER LEAVES A MAN WITHOUT ANOTHER MAN!!! Way to cut losses.


GA


take maryland today and make some money

If its the .1% and 99.9%, it just does not matter. Lots of scams out there. At least I knew it was coming. 2009 is just 2 days away. May it all be better for myself and all of you

 

[ANOTHERDAY]

wilheim what the f-ck is going on here i am trying to make money gambling and some f-cking nut comes into the forum to tell us about his girl leaving him.

wilheim this is a sports forum not ( ask ann landers) tell the f-cking kid to jump off a bridge and let me study my games without this nonsense interupting me.i am here to make money not play love councelor.

hey anotherday call dr. Phil this is a gambling forum not a doctors office tell somebody that gives a f-ck.

wilheim where do we get these guys he must have been sent over here by the shrink to make the rx look bad.sorry boys it wont work wilheim will handle this matter.now we need a new section in the forum (lovers lane) where you can disscuss your sexuel feelings both gay and heterosexuel do something wilheim i am trying to study the games for tonight.

Funny my man. It is gambling, hearts/thoughts/sports are all forms of gambling:howdy:

 

[celticGreen+]

she probably left 'cause your the kind of guy that logs into a sports betting forum 5 days after a breakup and posts the most excruciating touchy-feely bullshit ever... I mean, really?

...if I had known the response to my actions would cause me to read that post i would've never smashed her in the first place.

 

[DennizdaMenace]

New Years eve is a tuff holiday to ride this out..get fucken wasted so you pass out or take a chill pill..spend some time with someone who has always loved you..through good and bad..dont care if its a dog even..bro..sis..friend or parent...Do things for you..and you will win..I KNOW IT AINT EASY!..Now drop down and gimme 10 pushups..in cadence..1-2-3-1-1-2-3-2-1-2-3-3-1-2-3-4-1-2-3-5-1-2-3-6-1-2-3-7-1-2-3-8-1-2-3-9-1-2-3-10..there..dont that feel better already-The Menace

 

[PAPASMURF]

Bro dont worry same thing happen to me this christmas, but u will be ok just do what i did ..... Run down to your bank empty it out, cash in your 401k and any stocks and bond you have out it all on ok state tonite and by the hook. You will be ass happy as a gay man in prison at shower time!! Happy Year go cowboys!!

 

[FeelTheTruth]

she is clearly banging another guy. probably right as I type this.

but seriously... girls don't leave unless they have the replacement ready to go. girls hate being alone.

look at the bright side, you will save money on the hotel room you probably would have had to rent new years eve...now the new guy has to pay

 

[tkim11]

Funny how girls will break your heart and wants to be your friend...take it one day at a time. We all been there. Letting it all out and letting your friends and family help you will ease the pain. Good luck