themanej2001 said:
what i might do is for the followers post but just ignore everyone else with the ignore key... i dont wanna leave people that have followed me and since no one seems to think i am legit yet post again next year to prove i am legit... but idk this place just needs to be cleaned up that is the point i am trying to get across... big time... and i hate being here now....
Listen man...have you been drinking at all? Maybe not, but drinking can get me pissed off in all sorts of ways at people. This site is the very best and has lots of folks good and bad. FAR more good than bad. I'm sorry you've run into shitheads and some of those shitheads may be people I like on here but one man's shithead is another man's friend.
Please don't leave. You came in here all brash and that will bring grief for a time until you tone it down and you have. Do the ignore feature...that's a great idea! ALSO, report any bashing that is truly uncivil in your threads immediately WITHOUT responding and retaliating to those shithead posts. I'm sorry that you posted civilly in another's thread and got razzed....that is not the way it should work. So, stay out of that person's thread from now on. Also, forgive and forget....try to make amends with people.
Anyone remember NightMare....he was going great guns with capping on here. You know what he couldn't do? He could have kept his crazy titles and crazy threads BUT he didn't report bashing using the 'report post' feature that looks like a yield sign and HE WOULD continue to HARRASS and RETALIATE the flamers (yes...it was his thread) just feeding the flames and stoking the fires. You cannot respond to that. You have to: 1.) report, report, report. 2.) ignore, ignore, ignore. 3.) Forgive and forget and try to make amends.
I can't tell you how many guys on this site I have gotten into it with....SEVERAL.
NoLimits, dbldn, RoscoesDad and several others....in each case I have tried to continue in a more civil manner and now actually enjoy seeing their posts. They tolerate me too and treat me in a civil manner. We have no beef with each other.
This is a BIG place and there will be friction. We are really people here even though we are not seen.... STAY a while longer.
Peace. And if you go somewhere else, come back and check in once in a while and be good! Good luck. tulsa