Keyman and all-
it's one thing to care about what people think of you face-to-face, but you REALLY shouldn't care about that in an online forum! Just express your opinions, support them if questioned, check out the picks people make, make some of your own, and just banter with some good people on the site. you can't take too much offense to HOW people say stuff i.e. Tusks posts, that guy was just sayin what was on his mind, had his opinion which was a valid one, but u took offense. no point in being offended, after all it's an ONLINE POSTING FORUM.
We're all tryin to have fun and win some $$$, shit i'm a thread killer, people don't respond to my posts 99% of the time but if i let that get to me then that's just one more thing to stress over. Take it easy, enjoy yourself, post whenever you feel like, and if people want to comment, they will, if not, they won't. who cares, tomrorow post somethin else.
good thing i don't get TOO pissed about this stuff here at work, otherwise i'd be a terrible co-worker...
Dsethi