hey mad, good luck kid, and I hope u r sure that this is the right girl bec if you have any doubts, get out. When you make that decision of marriage, just don't forget you will be with her for the rest of your life, so if there is anything about her that you cannot accept, get out now before it's too late. There are many fishes in the sea. I wish you the best and I hope this won't be a decision that you will regret forever..