Geezus Wully, may have to put you on suicide watch.
Same here for me, last year after having 2 close friends check out (in their mid-40's).
Hardest thing to quit is smoking. Quit the sugars, processed foods, and high carbs. Find myself now looking at the content of everything I buy.
Like Tiz I eat whole grain breads. Ezekiel, or Food for Life multi-whole grain breads. Whole grain pasta. If I want something sweet, like coffee, it's a bit of honey.
No egg yolks, very lean cuts of meat (no hamburger, ever), lots of veggies, some fruit, and a little whiskey.
Salt seems to be the one ingredient that is added to everything, so it's extra hard to cut down on that.
No ice cream, but rather frozen yogurt that isn't ladened with sugar.
Diet soda with Splenda goes with the whiskey.
Watch the breakfast cereals, they load even the healthy looking stuff with refined sugar.
Refined sugar is the worst thing ever introduced to humankind.
Lost 10% of my body weight in a couple months, mostly the excess body fat. Waist and belly look like they did back when I was 18 now. Still feel like crap as body has the yearning for crap food. I see a Big mac and start to salivate, but stand firm on my new principles.
My sister did even better. She lost a bunch of weight....they adhere to the Weight Watchers, points program. I was amazed the last time I saw her.
You want candy? Eat some banana chips or some dried fruit.