Does a guy ever have the right to whip a girls ass ?

ladyoracle · Sep 18, 2003

Buzzsaw - that was me (shrink knows it was), but I'll never do it again - gosh I caught h*ll over that. good idea switching to linux ! did you hear that during one of the recent worms & microshaft security vulnerability, that microsoft actually had to run linux to keep their own "intra"net going.. hah ! microshaft blows

MAX - I think dykes in spikes shouldn't count.. if they want to act like men, then maybe they should be treated that way.

Shrinkeroo - thanx for the kind words - i like the RX

radiofreecostarica · Sep 18, 2003

only if she's kicking your ass...

buddyboy · Sep 18, 2003

opps I thought danny was asking if it was ok to wipe a girls ass.

oh well, hit a girl? come on now!

hitting a girl to defend yourself? yeah girl punches are really tough, their hands would break if they hit you hard enough to hurt you.

YOU: your honor that girl was gonna kick my ass, I had to hit her.

JUDGE: you are a pussy, you're going to jail because they need more tough guys like you in there.

what about hitting kids???

Degenerate · Sep 18, 2003

I would probably yell out to the room, "Raise your hands if you think she deserves a nice slap upside the face." If I got a clear majority of people saying yes then I just might. If not, throw the drink in her face.

Chadster · Sep 18, 2003

Never

Don't offensively strike her but do defend yourself and this means man-handling her if need be. I will not be beat down by a man or woman.

bagoftricks · Sep 18, 2003

WTF kind of people are here?
Hitting a female is the most sickening thing a man can do and nothing says more to society about the kind of person you are if you do this. If any man hit a woman that i care about like a girlfriend,sister,mother,friend etc etc, I would do time for them pure and simple.
If she is a mad bitch, walk away, take the high road and do not drop to her level but there is no reason for a man to hit a woman.
Sick I am shocked to hear you what hit a woman in any circumstances.

DarrylParsons · Sep 18, 2003

To answer this question one must ask...what makes a man a man? Is it his brain or his knuckles? Well, the answer is easy when considered in the backdrop of the great Darwinian food chain. We are at the top of it because of our brains, not our braun. Just consider what we would use if we were confronted by a hungry tiger!? Would we try to outbox him!? Uhhh, I don't think so.

So the solution to the problem at hand is to say whatever it is that offends the girl as much as possible and make sure lots of people hear it. If you choose your words right she will run off in a huff, run home recognizing the truth in the nasty things you said, and proceed to masturbate while dreaming of you shouting similarly dirty things at her.

Tekari · Sep 18, 2003

I suggest everyone in here find some friends that are girls to handle these situations for you when they come up

sickgambler · Sep 18, 2003

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Come on trick man, don't give me this..You come home early from work you open the door, walk into the bedroom, and see your wife really into it on her hands and knees blowing this guy off on your bed.. Tell me you ain't going to toss this guy out the window, then beat the crap out of her.

Yeah right Trick man!!

If things were not going good at home and you were having problems, then don't hit her. BUT.. if she was great to you, and telling you I love you all the time, and you treated her great by spoiling her, buying her the world, then she conned you and was seeing this guy behind your back the whole time and cheated on you, then you're allowed to kick her ass. Sorry kid, but most posters here would do the same as me. If not, then you're a fruit and you're not a real man, and most women will take advantage of you.. I agree it's not right to hit a woman, and I have NEVER hit one in my life, but if this situation occured, I'd kick her butt. Especially if you bought her a house, gave her everything, and she goes and does this behind your back. Tricks, you can't be a wimp all your life. You have to be a man once in your life, and stand up to her, or she'll do it over and over again.

Jazz · Sep 18, 2003

just a last comment before I split today - SG, if she's that kind of woman, I guarantee you that once you finish beating her up in the house, she's going to the police and file a report of abuse. Your ass is then going to get locked up, she'll go to a lawyer and a judge will give her a restraining order, you'll have about half an hour to clear out your stuff and she'll probably end up with the house. You'll end up having to bunk in some motel or impose on friends. If a wife and kids are involved, the courts won't care about her infidelity - they'll see the nice glossies the police took of her face the morning after, swollen to a pulp. Say goodbye to your kids because you certainly won't be keeping them.

It happens all the time - doesn't matter if she cheated on you, not to the courts - it matters that you attacked her physically. To my mind, that's not being a 'man', that's just foolish. But if some jail time and the loss of your house are worth it, so be it. Oh, yeah, it'll go on your record, and you will likely have to tell employers about it when they ask if you have a criminal record.

sickgambler · Sep 18, 2003

Jazz,

I won't leave any bruises on her, believe me. I am not that stupid. I will just give her a few kicks in the ass, a couple of smacks in the back of the head, just to tell her what I think, then take her stuff and toss it all out the window, and get rid of her the next day by divorcing her. But she will get the message with a few smacks, a la sick gambler. I won't leave any marks, so no proof will be there for evidence, but I will do ok.

Like I said, I have never hit a woman before, but if I caught her on my bed with another guy, i'll make sure she never forgets that day as long as she lives..

DickyW · Sep 18, 2003

NOTHING and I mean NOTHING good can come from hitting a girl as explained by Jazz. I think a nice lunger in her hair would do the trick.

Sick
Did you recruit this poster BSKILLER to join you in your bonus scams yet?

JennyDav · Sep 18, 2003

First of all, if the girl spit in his face, she is obviously trashy. I don't think a guy should hit a girl, nor should a girl hit a guy.

suetoneous · Sep 18, 2003

I think Hollywood invented 'Thou shall not hit a Woman.'

100 years ago hitting your spouse/girlfriend was certainly frowned upon, but that was it.

Men and women are responsible for the relationships they create.

radiofreecostarica · Sep 18, 2003

amen to that suetoneous. It might be just a further step down the ladder of emasculation. But yet...girl punches aren't bad and work as flirting most of the time.

Smack my bitch up.

Phaedrus · Sep 18, 2003

I don't hit women, or for that matter children, men or animals, in the course of my normal day-to-day activities. But that does not mean that I have never hit someone, including a women, or would never do so again. Like most situations it really boils down to the context of it.

One of the two women I have ever hit was a pyschobitch coming at me with a knife -- so I felt pretty justified in taking steps to neutralise the threat by overpowering her and taking the knife (I actually had already been cut once before my dumb ass decided to override my social mores and defend myself.) The other time I slapped one of my ex-wives back after she slapped the shit out of me during an argument. I felt terribly afterward -- to an extent still do -- but it wouldn't have happened if she had stayed on her side of the table. I don't feel that it was justified, but it wouldn't have happened if she hadn't hit me first.

Phaedrus

Buzzsaw · Sep 18, 2003

"..only hit a girl to defend yourself"

You just put up your arms up to defend yourself. If you got to hit a girl to defend yourself then you might as well come out of the closet now.

Gargoyle · Sep 18, 2003

A lesson from the movie Goodfellas:

Grab her and throw her out the phuckin door.

There are women that need protection of the law, and there are women that abuse that protection by being abusive verbally and physically. For all we know, he could have made a remark or grabbed her ass, but if she was drunk, I would have asked the bartender to either throw her out or get permission to do it yourself.

entropy · Sep 18, 2003

i have never hit a girl ( slapped slightly ) but have been attacked many times, nearly always with a couple of other girls around or hiding in bathroom.

putting ones arms up may help if punches are being thrown but scratching can be one helluva problem especially when naked.

3 months ago i did not leave my bedroom for 2 days after my g/f had scratched the shit out of my face and stomach.

hitting her without knocking her out would have been useless as she was drunk and any non passive reaction would just have enraged her more.

bagoftricks · Sep 19, 2003

Sick man, look at what you have just written

"then she conned you and was seeing this guy behind your back the whole time and cheated on you, then you're allowed to kick her ass. Sorry kid, but most posters here would do the same as me. If not, then you're a fruit and you're not a real man,"

Answer me this bro, do you have to beat the shit out of a woman if you catch her cheating on you to be a real man. Me personally I prefer the calm and collected approach and using my brain instead of being a caveman. I will make sure she regrets f*cking with me thats for sure, but i do not have to smack her to do that.Control your temper and use your mind Sick.I promise you, it will be you on the shit end of the stick at the end of the day.
Just my thoughts,everyone handles things differently.