The only women i bed are SP's (Service Providers), otherwise known as hookers.
I enjoy sessions more when the lady asks what i want, does it, follows my requests & keeps quiet. I've never performed DATY on a woman & probably never will. It does nothing for me & takes time (i'm paying for) away from her servicing me. Therefore it is a waste. So with me she is first & foremost a Service Provider (SP), not a service reciever (SR), even if she gets some enjoyment from certain activities (e.g. DFK, being touched, fucked).