Dating more than 1 girl at a time...how is it done

[BBBILLY]

Didn't say being on the lookout was what I was going to do. Why should I be exclusive if that's not necessarily what she's going to do?

I guess too many grey areas exist at this point in time.

You're not going to know what to do unless you talk to her about it. Hell man she might just think you are the one for her. If you are finding yourself thinking of her all the time then you need to put your cards on the table and talk. If it doesn't work out for you guys then at least you won't be worrying about it. Good Luck!

BBBd1g1t

 

[kingbill]

haven't had my coffee so I may ramble on here.

If there has been no discussion of exclusivity or implied exclusivity you can continue to date other women.

If you are concerned about her being with other men, all I can say is be a better man than the other options, it doesn't mean spend more money, it doesn't mean have a bigger dick because no matter how much you're packing in either area there will always be someone packing more. Be the one that she thinks about when she goes to sleep the one she thinks about when she wakes up be her fantasy.

Capture her mind and her fantasies, explain her soul to her and she will be yours and no one can or will come inbetween you.

Bottom line is if you want to see other people because you are actually interested in other people then do it but if you are trying to date other people because of spite and your own ego can't handle the fact that she might be dating other guys then I think you have to look at yourself and become a mature man.

Really with women, give them the freedom to leave and chances are they'll stay and it displays that you are a confident man, women love confidence and she'll stay true to you if she doesn't then be a little sad and know that you are a good man and find another one who is a better fit for you.

 

[Ironman_8]

Short answer you date other women and you charge her to the game. Shoot you have seen her and doled out in your words "a couple hundy" for a woman thats not even your girl. By that count you would be on track to spend close to a grand a month. What part of the game is that?

1st off what is so great about this woman?? I mean other than the puss, what about her is so special? I understand youre looking for the "one" but come on now, women arent that hard to come by there is it? Go out and meet some other women and put your bid in.

If she hasnt already said yes to the situation then you may need to keep it moving. She's not going to have an epiphany anytime soon based on how much you have wined and dined her up until this point and you have admitted that she may not be ready to settle down. Ween her from couple of times a week down to maybe once a week and build up your team (of women)

 

[Ironman_8]

haven't had my coffee so I may ramble on here.

If there has been no discussion of exclusivity or implied exclusivity you can continue to date other women.

If you are concerned about her being with other men, all I can say is be a better man than the other options, it doesn't mean spend more money, it doesn't mean have a bigger dick because no matter how much you're packing in either area there will always be someone packing more. Be the one that she thinks about when she goes to sleep the one she thinks about when she wakes up be her fantasy.

Capture her mind and her fantasies, explain her soul to her and she will be yours and no one can or will come inbetween you.

Bottom line is if you want to see other people because you are actually interested in other people then do it but if you are trying to date other people because of spite and your own ego can't handle the fact that she might be dating other guys then I think you have to look at yourself and become a mature man.

Really with women, give them the freedom to leave and chances are they'll stay and it displays that you are a confident man, women love confidence and she'll stay true to you if she doesn't then be a little sad and know that you are a good man and find another one who is a better fit for you.

I would have never thought of you as the sensitive type Bill.

 

[DeathEatsaCracker]

I think there was an episode of The Brady Bunch that answers your question.

 

[kingbill]

I changed my mind...spend more money...buy her lots of stuff...

 

[kingbill]

I would have never thought of you as the sensitive type Bill.

I'm all over the place, different women need different things but simply put be a strong confident man, women eat up the feelings and sensitivity shit as long as you're not a p(U)ssy about it.

 

[dr.vegas]

Years ago when I was single what I learned besides a variety of sex was great was it gets expensive and when in doubt, deny, deny, deny!

 

[mlfp]

haven't had my coffee so I may ramble on here.

If there has been no discussion of exclusivity or implied exclusivity you can continue to date other women.

If you are concerned about her being with other men, all I can say is be a better man than the other options, it doesn't mean spend more money, it doesn't mean have a bigger dick because no matter how much you're packing in either area there will always be someone packing more. Be the one that she thinks about when she goes to sleep the one she thinks about when she wakes up be her fantasy.

Capture her mind and her fantasies, explain her soul to her and she will be yours and no one can or will come inbetween you.

Bottom line is if you want to see other people because you are actually interested in other people then do it but if you are trying to date other people because of spite and your own ego can't handle the fact that she might be dating other guys then I think you have to look at yourself and become a mature man.

Really with women, give them the freedom to leave and chances are they'll stay and it displays that you are a confident man, women love confidence and she'll stay true to you if she doesn't then be a little sad and know that you are a good man and find another one who is a better fit for you.

Fuck man, one day I'm going to unleash my shit to you so I can find out what the fuck to do with women in my life. Until that day keep spewing this platinum. You my friend are the man.

 

[nctarheelfans]

Fuck man, one day I'm going to unleash my shit to you so I can find out what the fuck to do with women in my life. Until that day keep spewing this platinum. You my friend are the man.

Had a great night with her last night......off to dinner again with her tonight.....

 

[mlfp]

Had a great night with her last night......off to dinner again with her tonight.....

:nohead:

 

[kingbill]

Had a great night with her last night......off to dinner again with her tonight.....

Did you pick the place or did she pick the place.

One of the best rules I get girls on early is, If I'm paying I'm picking the place, If she's picking the place She's paying...

Women secretly loath it when a guy is "oh babe, I'll take you wherever you want, what's you favorite Restaurant, pick any place...blah blah blah"

 

[nctarheelfans]

Did you pick the place or did she pick the place.

One of the best rules I get girls on early is, If I'm paying I'm picking the place, If she's picking the place She's paying...

Women secretly loath it when a guy is "oh babe, I'll take you wherever you want, what's you favorite Restaurant, pick any place...blah blah blah"

I picked the place for tonight...I picked last night and she ended up paying......:toast:

Her friends are joining us out for dinner tonight so should be interesting......

 

[Doug]

I've never done it, I think you'd have to be a Scott Baio, in High school, or a Rockstar or rich or something to do it as a guy. Only chicks can do it. One at a time is all I have ever been able to muster... if it doesn't work with the one, find ONE other.

My hat's off to guys that have dated more than one at a time !

 

[nctarheelfans]

Update.........

Had a great dinner with the 25 year old tonight, but just don't think she's ready to get into anything too serious. I'm not proposing to anyone tomorrow by any means, but don't want to be playing the field either.

A discussion will be had in the next 48 hours to determine if we are going to casually date or give it a go.